There's another issue TC hasn't considered.
He's most employable as a male.
If I go back to minimum wage I'd still be able to market myself, if I go further into Psychology I can use my trans status as a bonus
Erm… no. There are 2 fields where there is work in Psych. Family counseling and research departments.
You're going to put on a dress and counsel a bunch of TERFy battered wives? I doubt that.
You may do ok as an addictions counselor, depending where you are and how the climate is toward trans people, but... erm… I'm not too hopeful. People who are around drug culture form most of their etiquette from what filters down from organized crime and prison codes. (Watch Sons of Anarchy, Gotti and Donnie Brasco if you need clarification on what those codes are.) You'll find a majority of them are even more homophobic than the university kids you're used to dealing with.
And research psychology is a Rich White Boys' Club. So good luck with that ~
I've always gone with my behaviors being a natural filter. If they don't want to be my friend I'm not stopping them from leaving, which strangely seems to keep them around.
But what if it's your boss or your landlord, or somebody who wants to badmouth you to your boss or landlord?
I'm not a success story Xena, the Capricornian adventure was never meant for me.
I'm not talking about conventional ideas of 'success.' I'm talking about a moderate to high risk of an ugly, imperceptible and unpreventable whisper campaign, where everybody around you decides that you're the ideal candidate to get tossed under the proverbial bus.
I'm talking about having to sleep in parks and steal food, risking all kinds of damage to your physical health bc people are just sadistic like that.
I'm not talking about the juvenile shit the idiots on SC squawk about.
I'm talking about real hardship. If you have internet access more than 2 hours/ day, then you are not experiencing it.
Judging from your responses, I'd say it's reasonable to assume that you've never experienced real hardship.
Your parents are wealthy/ influential, right?
I want to be secure with myself in the mirror, they come second. How they see me can skew how I see myself, but I come before they do.
^ This is exactly why I doubt your reasoning. I'm not talking about your fluffy friends who pat you on the head and tell you what you want to hear bc they want smthg from you.
I'm talking about the sadistic fucks who go out of their way to find freaks to torture.
As an ugly trannie, you will not be treated as a lady. You'll be ignored at best, and assaulted, bashed, fired and kicked out of your home at worst.
Unless your parents are comfortable with paying your way through life, and encouraging your dressup games until they die.
If that's the case, then go ye forth.