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Dear Sugar

"The winking face is definitely in regular use when it comes to sly/subtle insults. Have you not seen Jim's work?"

The way I saw it, Jim makes such frequent use of ;) because he almost never actually intends to insult someone. You likely know better than I do that Jim says nothing in anger, he knows that to show anger/investment is to show that someone has gotten to you, right? To me he adds the ;) to signify that he's just playing around or trolling. I think that stands true for Mee as well, though as you mentioned, we've already moved from that. I think Mee wants to move from this whole thing frankly, as you said this situation didn't work out in his favor. I would go further and say that it didn't work out in anyone's favor. Hell, I'm losing time of my golden years right now typing this shit XD and it's not like you want to continue this do you? That's a legitimate question on my part, not rhetorical. I still can't see how anyone gleans amusement from these types of threads.

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"First you say that I am insecure for not taking the idea into consideration and elaborating on the matter .Now you say that I am insecure because I elaborated...​."

Now where did I say elaborating on the matter would somehow disprove your insecurity? As much as it'd be convenient for your following excuse, that simply wasn't said. What I did say was that you failed to provide a decent excuse for each of the many instances I brought up, none of those instances had anything to do with your personal life or anything outside this forum for that matter. 

So if showing how great your life is wasn't enough, you're desperate mind tells you take a fucking insecurity test and post the results to prove it to me. As I said before, if not for the various instances I listed these drastic attempts to prove your lack of insecurity really make it clear. I think the last time someone took a test to disprove someone's opinion of them was Dexter.

"The insecure person needs to showcase his or her accomplishments.- had to do so because Ken asked me to. Otherwise no."

This is perfect. Because I've never asked you to do anything other than explain yourself of accusations I've gathered from your time on the forum. You took it upon yourself to take an alternate way to disprove your insecurity by listing how great your life is, this is of course added to you showcasing all the compliments you've received from forum members :D So the answer to this one so far, is yes.

"The insecure person drops the “humble brag” far too often.- no."

this little quote from you comes to mind: "I doubt that insults would do any harm to you since you tend to take such things as a learning experience; life lesson. We are quite alike in this regard."

"If you say so... still struggling to accept the observation-based compliment? Look who's insecure now :P"

I'd say you'd have a case if I were anyone else, but this wouldn't be the first time you've greeted me with compliments only to put insults behind my back later. 

"Each is a bit too far fetched, but if I did deem it wrong, I would not do it. Besides, it happened quite randomly."

The convicting part is not even that it happened, but that it's still in use. Finding a need to continue says enough in itself

"The reference was to another post. You did proclaim going on me pretty hard whereas I am quite calm about the matter."

This doesn't disprove anything I've said, there's not even a point to this reply. You did in fact say I seemed invested in the matter, while simultaneously bragging you speedily wrote 1000+ character description about yourself to disprove my point.

"Proof of the page will be, if need be. Interested parties are free to PM me for some visual footage (upon my acceptance)."

This won't at all disprove what I was being sarcastic about(you only memorizing a couple of the names) You're eagerness to prove otherwise by taking more desperate measures like this just adds to the insecurity accusation. Publicly declaring you'll share video footage to disprove a point you misunderstood, talk about an oversight.

 

 

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Dear Sugar


Now where did I say elaborating on the matter would somehow disprove your insecurity?

Discussing it seems like a proper approach. Or was. Now we are getting a bit repetitive.

So if showing how great your life is wasn't enough, you're desperate mind tells you take a fucking insecurity test and post the results to prove it to me. As I said before, if not for the various instances I listed these drastic attempts to prove your lack of insecurity really make it clear. I think the last time someone took a test to disprove someone's opinion of them was Dexter.

It's not about you. Hypothesis of insecurity was raised, I read about it and decided I could also take some tests. I have addressed those attempts, I think, and added some more related input.

 by listing how great your life is

You're doing well too, I think, no need to bring it up twice.

I'd say you'd have a case if I were anyone else, but this wouldn't be the first time you've greeted me with compliments only to put insults behind my back later.

I can compliment you on some things and insult on others, can't I?

The convicting part is not even that it happened, but that it's still in use. Finding a need to continue says enough in itself.

There's no reason to continue, but no reason to stop either. It is not something I actively do. The list was made in 4-5 sittings throughout a few months. Why would I stray away from it now?

This won't at all disprove what I was being sarcastic about(you only memorizing a couple of the names) You're eagerness to prove otherwise by taking more desperate measures like this just adds to the insecurity accusation. Publicly declaring you'll share video footage to disprove a point you misunderstood, talk about an oversight.

Privacy is a serious matter to me, that's all. 

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Dear Sugar

Mee stated: source post

have you ever had a girlfriend?

Twice in my teens. But this is not a topic I am comfortable elaborating, so I will not say anything more regardless of the taunting and poking attempts. Any further related comments will be ignored.

wow. touchy subject huh? what i can take from your statement 'regardless of the taunting and poking attempts' is that however bad, insecure or inexperienced this makes you look, it is but a mere grain which pales in comparison to the horror of the truth regarding you and girls. i mean you're pretty indifferent to most subjects but you've written an entire disclaimer on how you will refrain from having any type of discussion regarding relationships. considering you wanted to kill your mother this would have been especially interesting..something that is a rarity when it comes to you :D

i can analyze how you behave around females though. it's like you have this james bond/casanova image that you want to put across but whatever shizoid/autistic or otherwise limitations you're dealing with, make your demeanor slightly awkward and embarrassing. you're not terrible looking so i'm sure girls generally like you until you open your mouth and the awkwardness becomes too great to bear. only explored relationships in your teens though? why am i getting the image of a 10 year old mee awkwardly standing on the opposite side of the playground as his 'girlfriend' and never having had exchanged a single word directly to her ?

you say you're not gay, so perhaps you're asexual? is that something you've ever considered?

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Dear Sugar

"I think Mee wants to move from this whole thing frankly, as you said this situation didn't work out in his favor. I would go further and say that it didn't work out in anyone's favor. Hell, I'm losing time of my golden years right now typing this shit XD and it's not like you want to continue this do you? "

It's minimal effort on my part, and with each post comes more and more contradictions as well as excuses. It's entertaining and satisfying to watch someone stammer when it comes to these things. This all started when I called him out for making a subtle remark, how he reacted is really what dictated this entire thing. The more questions I asked more he contradicted himself, the more contradictions were pointed out more transparent excuses were made until we finally get to a point where he's listing off how good his life is off the web and posting results of an online test to show he isnt insecure. My only initial arguing point was "you're insecure", the rest was pointing out contradictions in responses. We also would have no knowledge of this SC notebook without me prying for it. I'll continue cracking this cocoa nut(not at all implying this was hard) as long as juice keeps seeping through the cracks.

"That's a legitimate question on my part, not rhetorical. I still can't see how anyone gleans amusement from these types of threads."

I enjoy these sort of disputes really, it's a good challenge(usually). I get it isn't everyone's cup of tea, but im not forcing anyone to reply or read to my input. If he wanted no part in this, he could've simply stopped posts ago. He's making more and more effort to disprove his insecurity, while my input has required no additional effort, his measures are getting more drastic. I see no reason to stop pressing the issue.

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Dear Sugar

JimSavage stated: source post

keep talking about me guys, i love the attention

I don't talk about you very often, but I do probably think of you briefly once or twice a week on average. That must turn into hours over the course of a few years.

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Dear Sugar

Motor stated: source post

Jim makes such frequent use of ;) because he almost never actually intends to insult someone.

To me he adds the ;) to signify that he's just playing around or trolling.

It is intended to insult people, but said insult is for the lols through an abrasive sense of humor. Them being affected is like 9/10 the joke, and their following replies up his supply.

It's a joke at their expense with the ";)" showing that he has no hard feelings as the motivation. It also makes him seem cheekier, something that overly serious people respond to like it's salting the wound.

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Dear Sugar

JimSavage stated: source post

winks and blows a kiss at turn

keep talking about me guys, i love the attention

Is it as good for you when the people feeding you attention don't mind that you like it? 

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Dear Sugar

winks and blows a kiss at turn

keep talking about me guys, i love the attention

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Dear Sugar

Depends if they are cute submissive femboys ;p

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