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Sugar: are you schizoid mee

Mee: Not to my knowledge.

Mee: But I can look into it later.

Sugar: i think you are

Mee: "Sugar Sugar: i think you are" did not fit last time I checked. More interesting topic (for me) would be hearing how am I dull since you are the first to tell such a thing. Anyway, doing some footing now.

Sugar: did not fit what. the schizoid terms of acceptance?

Mee: Give me a situation for the schizoid acceptance.

Sugar: ok. sugar thinks you are a schizoid.

Mee: Okay... Let's see.

Mee: Mee then thinks about it and decides to read into the case when he can to see if her statement is fitting.

Mee: The likeliness if it and sugar's opinion is not too relevant in the life of mee. It is an interesting thing to look up, nothing else.

Sugar: what brought you to that conclusion?

Mee: It does not change who I am. Just one more keyword of sorts.

Sugar: but how did you reach the conclusion that you aren't? just from it not being relevant?

Mee: It was brought up in the old SC. And I did do some reading.

Sugar: who cares..i'm saying it now

Sugar: what specifically brought you to the conclusion that you aren't though.

Mee: My previous looking into it. But, like I said, I will look it up again when I can.

Mee: There were some traits and the overall mindset that did not fit.

Sugar: specifically though. not generic or general. specific things you thought exempted you from it

Sugar: like what, specifically.

Mee: I do not perceive myself to be somewhat superior to others and I do acknowledge that people are useful and necessary inclusions in my life.

Mee: While I am not a social butterfly, I interact outside if the comfort of my home with relative ease.

Sugar: what are you talking about. none of those are schizoid traits

Sugar: They do not desire or enjoy close relationships, even with family members. They choose solitary jobs and activities. They take pleasure in few activities, including sex. They have no close friends, except first-degree relatives. They have difficulty relat

Sugar: to others. They are indifferent to praise or criticism. They are aloof and show little emotion. They might daydream and/or create vivid fantasies of complex inner lives.

Sugar: you said yourself you are aloof and unemotional. you wanted t kill your mom = close relationships even with family

Mee: I have some close relationships.

Sugar: you don't seem very sexual, everything is clinical.

Sugar: indifferent about most things

Cadaver: Wow that's cool

Sugar: that's pretty damning stuff mee. less than 24 hours ago you described yourself as aloof and unemotional.

Cadaver: It's spot on

Mee: I like the general idea.

Cadaver: I mean based on how you described yourself

Mee: Some things can be argued tho

Cadaver: I don't know about your friends or fantasy worlds but the rest seems to fit

Mee: I do happen to have some closer friends albeit I tend not to bond much with any family members

Mee: And I enjoy quite a few activities.

Mee: Praise and criticism are relevant as long as they are legitimate.

Cadaver: What activities do you enjoy?

Mee: The family bond... It just wasn't there for some reason. I remember hearing some girl tell her father who came to pick her up that she loved him and it baffled me. I never said such a thing and it seemed weird to do so

Mee: I hang out with friend groups, taking part in specific activities a few times per month

Cadaver: Like what?

Mee: I do not see a point to share such specifics. Socializing in a group is involved.

Cadaver: Well for my sake?

Sugar: you seem pretty indifferent to praise or criticism. you're like 'thank you for the feedback. i will take this into account.'

Mee: Movies, chess club, meeting with two fellow INTJ's for unrestricted discussion.

Mee: Meeting with other friends, e.g. a three people group from primary school

Sugar: very clinical.

Sugar: and now you're halfway evasive about it

Mee: Can't I be clinical?

Mee: Seems to fit with the MBTI

Sugar: omg.

Mee: Ok, going <.<

italicized text demonstrates OP's hesitation of being penetrated. penetration begins at text highlighted in bold. OP's speedy exit implies unwillingness to be penetrated.

Mee stated: source post

feel free to try to penetrate me.

I'm not seeing Schizoid... Maybe OCPD makes more sense...

https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000942.htm

https://iocdf.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/OCPD-Fact-Sheet.pdf

OP first replied from a gym, then from a coffee shop, then he had to go to his residence because some company is expected. OP is now a little busy, will get back at his convenience.

I can at least see where the assumption is coming from for Schizoid. His typing style reminds me a little of a friend of mine who was diagnosed with it as well.

The third person stuff still weirds me out.

You're right; it's not his first language. He's described himself before though. Based on that description, I said that it sounds more like OCPD than Schizoid PD. He's capable of looking in to OCPD and agreeing or disagreeing, just like he's done with Schizoid.

Are you people for real? The guy isn't even typing in his first language.

Let him converse with a doc who grasps the subtleties of his own culture and manner of expressing himself before you go foisting your assumptions onto him.

smh

VonChirp stated: source post

I'm not seeing Schizoid... Maybe OCPD makes more sense...

https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000942.htm

https://iocdf.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/OCPD-Fact-Sheet.pdf

OCPD?

OCPD has some of the same symptoms as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). People with OCD have unwanted thoughts, while people with OCPD believe that their thoughts are correct. In addition, OCD often begins in childhood while OCPD usually starts in the teen years or early 20s.

Correct thoughts? Could be said about anyone...

People with either OCPD or OCD are high achievers and feel a sense of urgency about their actions. - to a degree

They may become very upset if other people interfere with their rigid routines. - yes

They may not be able to express their anger directly. People with OCPD have feelings that they consider more appropriate, like anxiety or frustration. - no

This perfectionism may interfere with the person's ability to complete tasks, because their standards are so rigid. - may interfere

They may withdraw emotionally when they are not able to control a situation. - if careful pondering is what follows, then yes.

This can interfere with their ability to solve problems and form close relationships. - does not seem to be the cause

Other signs of OCPD include:

• Over-devotion to work -
• Not being able to throw things away, even when the objects have no value -
• Lack of flexibility +
• Lack of generosity +/-
• Not wanting to allow other people to do things +/-
• Not willing to show affection -
• Preoccupation with details, rules, and lists +

There are some similarities, but to a healthy degree, I would say. Any somewhat more organized person could match some of the criteria.

Turncoat stated: source post

I can at least see where the assumption is coming from for Schizoid. His typing style reminds me a little of a friend of mine who was diagnosed with it as well.

The third person stuff still weirds me out.

Mee has found this comment rather interesting and would like to hear more. 

Xena stated: source post

Are you people for real? The guy isn't even typing in his first language.

Let him converse with a doc who grasps the subtleties of his own culture and manner of expressing himself before you go foisting your assumptions onto him.

smh

If the formal fashion is the concern, I tend to mind my words in my own language as well. Little to none slang words and so on. I used to read a lot as a child and the peers with who I socialized were fairly civil, so I failed to pick up a less formal talking style. I have used swear words just a few times and it always sounded very weird.

VonChirp stated: source post

I can see where the Schizoid is coming from as well, but I think that the overly formal way of interaction, the perfectionism, strict rigidity, and the preference for order and rules is more in line with OCPD than Schizoid.

At first you said that you did not see from where it is coming. Could be neither. 

Ugh, reading those symptoms feels like a nasty reminder. 
 

Mee stated: source post

Turncoat stated: source post

I can at least see where the assumption is coming from for Schizoid. His typing style reminds me a little of a friend of mine who was diagnosed with it as well.

The third person stuff still weirds me out.

Mee has found this comment rather interesting and would like to hear more. 

 It's nothing worth anything, it's just a little familiar feeling. It's something about the structure.
 

If the formal fashion is the concern, I tend to mind my words in my own language as well. Little to none slang words and so on. I used to read a lot as a child and the peers with who I socialized were fairly civil, so I failed to pick up a less formal talking style. I have used swear words just a few times and it always sounded very weird.

It's not just formal, but I can't really pinpoint what it is.

It seems almost choppy from not just your use of commas, but also from the word choices and typical phrase lengths. It makes what you say seem slightly awkward and stilted. Your word choices at points also make you sound slightly disconnected from the words, a lack of feeling behind them. A language barrier however could potentially explain that.