by This Guy
by Amanita
by Edvard
by Selena
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Haha...well, first off I'm not a psychopath. And I was talking strictly about sexual s/m roleplay in my post, in the context of long time partners vs new ones. Making yourself vulnerable to someone you trust isn't as thrilling, because they are predictable. That's why you trust them in the first place.
Yeah. That's why s/m play tends to escalate. It can be easy to take things too far when you lose sight of the fact that you're messing around with dangerous shit. I have to watch it. What we do doesn't feel scary, but logically- it should. We take a risks that many people would consider "unacceptable".
That is also why it's fun to mix it up. Keeping the same roles, or assuming the same style all the time, would get insufferably boring. For monogamy to work for someone like me, there has to be a lot of variety.
Wouldn't this become horribly monotonous and jaded, this s/m "play"? You guys are now expecting depravity in order to enjoy something simple like sex. There isn't any "fear" if you are doing the same activities with the same person, even if you choose to electrocute a vagina or slice a jacob's latter along the underside of a shaft. Are you psyching yourself into an imagined fear or something? Is that where freaks like you get off?
Electrocute a vagina? Ew. Gross. You just don't get it.
I guess the sharp edge of a blade slicing against your femoral artery or jugular vein ought to be a bit scary. I don't know. It's just thrilling and delicious, somehow.
Sex without violence is boring. Run of the mill vanilla sex does nothing for freaks like me... Only unimaginative dullards like you. :)
by EdvardXD
Well, she did say that what they do doesn't feel scary... It's all play pretend in the end, it's why it's called "roleplay". Guess some people get into it and ignore that inner voice that tells them it's only pretense more easily than others.
Yeah. We don't "role-play", or pretend, or dress up, or engage in other kinds of theatrics. That would feel ridiculous and contrived. We don't do the dom/sub, master/slave thing either. That just seems silly. (Besides, neither of us is submissive by nature, so it wouldn't work, at all.) I'm into s/m for the sensation- the juxtaposition of pleasure and pain. Raw, visceral, combative sadomasochism, or various forms of edge-play, where you push the other person's limits to the extreme, is what does it for me.