It's impossible to take anything you post as insightful and helpful when you conduct yourself in such a way with these infinite random accounts.
I see you deleted some posts, so maybe you're done with this thread? You ask if you are significant to him? Probably to some extent - even if you're just a mark, he has you in his sight. Hard to say how serious he is.
Why do you think he is a sociopath? Why do you think he doesn't want more than just sex?
Sexual chemistry is a powerful thing, esp. in the workplace. It's almost impossible to ignore - all the time spent together and all the common ground - plus it's just hot.
by cluelessEmily - that is a good point, he and I do not need to share everything or talk about everything.
by anastaciaIt's impossible to take anything you post as insightful and helpful when you conduct yourself in such a way with these infinite random accounts.
Dear Ana:
Sorry you are not able to see that any of my msgs are helpful.
I did not find your complaints helpful either because they offered no constructive critisms and spread misperceptions by making undue judgment calls about me for whatever reason you believe negative things about me. I do take such conflicting perceotions setipusly because i know they can be resolved for mutual benefit in more effective communictions and relations as a community.
I apologize to you TK hypercube and others that my intent is not clear, and my way of experimenting with character accounts and attemts at humor or sarcasm come across as disruptive or confusing.
I trust this will improve as we go, so thank you for sharing your concerns though i prefer to use our own threads and not pist in the middle of someone elses where i cant search or find it easily to reply.
Yours truly, Emily
by Thrill KillOf course she has many random accounts. Emily is the biggest troll here.
OK Thrill so you wanted an example of projection.
There was no issue here on this thread with me posting under whatever account happened to be saved in my cell phone.
Until YOU and ANA decided to PROJECT YOUR ISSUES WITH ME FROM "ANOTHER THREAD OR THREADS" ONTO THIS ONE
That is one example of PROJECTION.
ANA/TK'S "unresolved issues with Emily" ===> PROJECTED ===> onto Clueless threadwhere Emily did not post any spam or silly posts
This shows if YOU and ANA don't "resolve your past issues with me" CLEARLY you CARRY IT WITH YOU. And PROJECT IT elsewhere. As you BOTH DID ON THIS THREAD.
GET IT? Can we use this thread as a physical example you can SEE with your EYES?
Notice Clueless was more interested in resolving her issues and FOCUSED ON CONTENT. She was NOT arguing with me over "why I was using that account on my cell phone."
YOU AND ANA BROUGHT IT UP BECAUSE YOU CARRY THOSE ISSUES WITH YOU.
GET IT? THAT is why I care about "resolving issues" with YOU, Ana and Hypercube
so you DON'T take "past hostilities" and ===> PROJECT ==> onto future threads.
LIKE YOU BOTH DID HERE
by TurncoatThis seems uncharacteristically aggressive coming from you.
Hi Turncoat: I am openminded to trying every which way it takes to express it to people.
Being nice and explaining didn't work, apparently.
So now I'm trying the IN YOUR FACE approach if that is their language? Whatever works, I'm willing to learn and speak effectively. to walk in my neighbor's shoes.
if this doesn't work, I will apologize for yelling in ALL CAPS try something else....
Not with you, Turncoat, because you do respond to rational explanations, which I offered.
With these two, I don't know what works. I would wave flags in Semaphore if it communicated the message.
Not until someone tells me yes, I hear/get what you are saying now, can I know what works for THAT person.
Unlike talking with you, explaining was not enough, apparently. I tried over and over.
So until they tell me they get my point, I have NO IDEA.
I just know to try a different way. so that's what I did.
I guess yelling in caps shows I am human. Yes, I get tired, too. Somehow I don't enjoy being falsely "ACCUSED" of "trying to control the forum" when it is just plain fact that Luna is in charge.
Where even posts I made that were helpful get followed by a bunch of criticisms like here that had nothing to do with it. What do you call that?
"With these two, I don't know what works."
Not forcing a solution on them is a start. You can't fix every problem, but more importantly, you shouldn't feel like you have to fix them. Life's a journey and everyone takes different paths. What helps one person could be irrelevant or even ruin someone else.
"Where even posts I made that were helpful get followed by a bunch of criticisms like here that had nothing to do with it. What do you call that?"
Life.