Actually, I asked if I was insignificant. Either way, I got it. Thanks
by cluelessThe reason I think he only wants sex from me is because he is a sociopath and married.
I told him I was insecure. It's my excuse for not believing the things he tells me (undying love).
I am dirty minded :)
I like him and enjoy his company. I would like to maintain a friendship (plus the attention is nice. . . .maybe I am insecure), however, if our relationship is causing him to resent me, then I'd rather not play with fire.
How long have you known him?
Has he cheated on his wife before?
Do you want to have sex with him?
Why do you want to be friends with him?
What do you mean "play with fire" exactly?
What specifically are you insecure about?
What does being "significant" mean to you and why do you want to be?
[Hey this is Emily
I have had friendships with two friends who blamed me for why we were never romantic. They tried to make it my fault. All I can do is treat them as my other friends.
I deal with my issues, and let them handle theirs. Any good friend would advise and encourage them to resolve their own issues, not project onto anyone else.
I try to keep our issues separate out of respect for our friendship. But if they won't confront their own conflicts but hide, project or blame me, that part is their problem. I can try to help and be supportive as a friend, but can't take that on as my fault or I'm not helping them.]
by cluelessMy friend who is a sociopath (assume he is for argument's sake) professes his undying love to me because he wants to sleep with me. I don't believe he loves me and I tell him that. I am not ever going to sleep with him, but he thinks otherwise because I seem insecure and dirty
i assume he's frustrated. Does he hate me? do I anger him? Or am I insignificant enough that he really doesn't care? I just want to know what I'm dealing with.
o.Ó