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Primal stated: source post

'gender binary' is Reality...

It's a physical reality, yes, but should it have be more than that?

I personally think that if expectations weren't so strongly thrown at people for what constitutes a man or a woman, there'd be less people feeling a need to surgically switch their presented gender to feel comfortable with themselves. The presence of a penis or vagina would become more trivial with time. 
 

FFS. There are 'mental health sites with26 fking genders to choose from based on 'how you choose to identify'....LOL....and Australia has been badly infected with this garbage...I was surprised to see that. 

Yeah, that shit's weird to me too to be honest. 

On one hand, it helps for streamlining, but on the other it further emphasizes the importance of gender instead of valuing being yourself despite it. 
 

Being yourself has interesting ramifications when you are start including the mentally ill/ Personality disordered....so...there needs to exist a line in the sand somewhere....or we are going to have more otherkin bursting out of the internet and into legislation and Social Justice Warturds squacking at "microaggressions' and telling me how I am to 'feel' about their bullshit.....which is not going to work...lol...at. all. 

There'd be less fighting if there was less weight put onto the importance of it. What makes things like Otherkin harmful is the levels of escapism present, their denial of being human. We are human, we are our gender, but we don't have to be a gender uniform list of traits as a result of that. If there was less to run away from, we'd have less crazy expressions of escapism. 
 

Also the  blatant idiocy of Feminism, needs  a clean up...

That depends strongly on which "Feminism" you're meaning: Equalism versus Femnazi. 

Gender as a whole really just needs to stop being taken as if it's such a big deal. 


As for your mention of "mental illness", much of it is culturally designated. Homosexuality was once a DSM entry for instance, and what's deemed a disorder in some places is either absent or accepted in others. In many a layman's terms, quirks stop being seen as disorders once it stops causing disorder. 

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haart stated: source post

That's a very dramatic hyperbole. Have you met many people living as coffee pots?

When I see this argument, it reeks of "fear of change", fear of where you might fit into a society that allowed people to live as they please. What does it matter to you if someone wants to wear a dress and call themselves Samantha? How does that impact your life?

Far from dramatic, and the coffeepot was just for giggles. Can you imagine that I don't  wish to read the ranting of a mentally ill tranny faggot spewing about 'What women want' or suggesting that they actually have a clue of femininity outside of that which is based on their fked up imagination?

Of course, you ought to be able to voice a critical opinion. But... you are voicing a critical opinion... And no one is calling you a bigot?

Of course people are! Are you blind...?

What's more, your right to voice an opinion is equal to that of another. You say nigger, they say racist. That's two opinions being voiced. Where's the problem?

The problem is.....you Can NOT....wake up...lol...But white guilt is fair game...it's just absurd and funny as fk. 

Social Justard Warturd is your flappy flag , Haart....so are the spins that go with it...

 

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Primal stated: source post

You missed the point on Responsibility for you actions..if you want to dress up in a fox costume, call yourself otherkin and expect the rest of the world to agree that you are not fking nuts, then that is Mental Illness leading the way....which is fking nuts. 

Do you see that on the same level as defying gender expectations? Would you say that female lumberjacks and male secretaries are both mentally ill? 

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ImNotHer stated: source post

Women: Do you remember the first time you were told that guys will only want you for one thing, then told you should wait to give your virginity to someone who loves you?

What about those of you who were not socialized the way most parents do their children... or, maybe you were but still didn't turn out to fit into typical stereotypes?

 

My dad dressed me like a boy as a child because he wanted me to be a boy, so there's that.

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Turncoat stated: source post

It's a physical reality, yes, but should it have be more than that?

No. But out of interest , How so? in your opinion.

I personally think that if expectations weren't so strongly thrown at people for what constitutes a man or a woman, there'd be less people feeling a need to surgically switch their presented gender to feel comfortable with themselves. The presence of a penis or vagina would become more trivial with time. 

 

Wrong. They are mentally ill to begin with. Suicide rates post op are through the roof. Read the studies on it. Presence of your gender as a triviality of existence is a ridiculous concept. You don't get to choose. It's in your DNA
 

Yeah, that shit's weird to me too to be honest. 

On one hand, it helps for streamlining, but on the other it further emphasizes the importance of gender instead of valuing being yourself despite it. 
 

No. It validates the mental illness and warped perception of reality. 

There'd be less fighting if there was less weight put onto the importance of it. What makes things like Otherkin harmful is the levels of escapism present, their denial of being human. We are human, we are our gender, but we don't have to be a gender uniform list of traits despite that. If there was less to run away from, we'd have less crazy expressions of escapism. 

Escapism. Precisely. Unreality....

Also the  blatant idiocy of Feminism, needs  a clean up...

That depends strongly on which "Feminism" you're meaning: Equalism versus Femnazi. 

Equal pay for same work ...and there it stops. 


Gender as a whole really just needs to stop being taken as if it's such a big deal. 

How so? It is a big deal...whether through social expectations or personal desires....it is a big deal...suggesting that there is only 'one' gender is further stupidity which is also being promoted....reach between your legs if ever in doubt....And if in doubt...you are mentally ill...lol...there is no escape clause from that simple test. 


As for your mention of "mental illness", much of it is culturally designated. Homosexuality was once a DSM entry for instance, and what's deemed a disorder in some places is either absent or accepted in others. In many a layman's terms, quirks stop being seen as disorders once it stops causing disorder. 

Perhaps that was also an error of empathy...who knows? I am not gay, nor do I have any interest in my gender in a sexual manner....nor do I give a shit about anyone else's sexuality....if people are bi....double your chances of getting laid...and no one's business. Gay Pride parades and the bullshit that goes with .....who cares? ...it's nothing but screaming for validation....if you are comfy in your sexuality...you won't give a shit what anyone else thinks. 

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Turncoat stated: source post

 

Primal stated: source post

You missed the point on Responsibility for you actions..if you want to dress up in a fox costume, call yourself otherkin and expect the rest of the world to agree that you are not fking nuts, then that is Mental Illness leading the way....which is fking nuts. 

Do you see that on the same level as defying gender expectations? Would you say that female lumberjacks and male secretaries are both mentally ill? 

Bad trolling TC...you can do better than that...lol...those are JOBS...who cares which gender does them...I don't...do you?

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Primal stated: source post

 

haart stated: source post

That's a very dramatic hyperbole. Have you met many people living as coffee pots?

When I see this argument, it reeks of "fear of change", fear of where you might fit into a society that allowed people to live as they please. What does it matter to you if someone wants to wear a dress and call themselves Samantha? How does that impact your life?

Far from dramatic, and the coffeepot was just for giggles. Can you imagine that I don't  wish to read the ranting of a mentally ill tranny faggot spewing about 'What women want' or suggesting that they actually have a clue of femininity outside of that which is based on their fked up imagination?

So... Let me get this right, your argument is basically that you don't want to read someone else's opinion?

Of course, you ought to be able to voice a critical opinion. But... you are voicing a critical opinion... And no one is calling you a bigot?

Of course people are! Are you blind...?

This was addressed to Virus, and he answered well.

What's more, your right to voice an opinion is equal to that of another. You say nigger, they say racist. That's two opinions being voiced. Where's the problem?

The problem is.....you Can NOT....wake up...lol...But white guilt is fair game...it's just absurd and funny as fk. 

Social Justard Warturd is your flappy flag , Haart....so are the spins that go with it...

Wow. It must be a scary world in which you live, Prim. People calling you a bigot and all...

Grow up. If you want the absolute freedom to voice an opinion (which I think you ought to have), you've gotta expect others to occasionally voice an opposing opinion. 

You don't want to be called a bigot? Boo fucking hoo XD

EDIT: And, naturally, you then have the right to call me a "Social Justard Warturd". Bless.

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LOL...lame...I don't give a shit what you call me...as your opinion you can print out, light on fire and shove it up your ass for enlightenment... ;)

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Primal stated: source post

LOL...lame...I don't give a shit what you call me...as your opinion you can print out, light on fire and shove it up your ass for enlightenment... ;)

I'll invite you to do the same :P

This has been nice, Prim. 

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...lol...of course...you have no other option do you? 

 

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