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Dear Sugar

VonChirp stated: source post

Practice your emotional responses in the mirror every now and again, especially before going out with people. 

If not for the earlier portions about paying attention while socializing with other people, I'd accuse you of risking becoming like Dandy Mott: 




"Sad, Happy, Moody."

It's people like this that demonstrate why it's nice to have an opinion outside of your own about your displays and tendencies. When there's only room to ask yourself, problems surface down the line. Our own perceptions are always limited in some way. Mirrors by themselves only show you what you expect to see.

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Dear Sugar

You read personal statement that I wrote for something once and said I "sound like a complete psychopath" in it due to the matter of fact way that I described the events in it. You've also heard my voice in conversation countless times. Do I sound like a complete psychopath when we're having a conversation? Was my affect flat during that recording?

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Dear Sugar

I haven't. I read how he types in a flat affect, which matches with how he describes himself. But, I could be wrong.

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I'm going to project something else on your face if you don't put that tongue back

It's amusing to see some people make an attempt at describe someone's lack of interest in them with some pseudo-psychology and fail at that too

 

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Dear Sugar

That seems very tough. I can't believe you're able to manage all of that. This is inspiring to me. It almost seems life isn't worth putting that much calculative effort in and you should be awarded a million dollars and be famous for that.

EDIT: Turncoat has a point.

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Dear Sugar

Edit: Sorry for the vague response; I'm not sure why I put something incomplete like that.

Jim, you are on some random tangent. Quit being defensive.

Cricket, I did say that. That was not not so much the diction as it was about the sense of objectification in the paper. My (very minor) contention here is diction. You can give tone to what you read, and give it the cadence of regular conversation. But I think we both know you would never say the same words casually.

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Dear Sugar

Mee stated: source post

As for the matter of finding something wrong with me, I think that it is more reasonable to stick with a known coast instead of testing new waters. Some of the things good old Hare has kindly presented are rather close to my negative traits.

Facet 2: Affective

  • Lack of remorse or guilt
  • Emotionally shallow
  • Callous/lack of empathy
  • Failure to accept responsibility for own actions

 

Facet 3: Lifestyle

  • Parasitic lifestyle
 

I should also be more attentive to my colleagues. To do so I will start taking paper notes, not just mental ones, about them, like I have been doing with my friends. This should help me find some common interests and maybe get closer to these people. I should also accept their suggestions to go out in a group. They seemed pleased when I have accepted such offers and also expressed that by telling that it was nice of me to come and so on.

I also need to be more attentive to my mother. Yes, she is clingy and annoying and not too interesting, but she can be tolerated to a degree, big enough for me to interact more. I have dismissed some of the suggestions because I had other things to do, but I could sometimes make a sacrifice. After all, she has lost her husband and does not have many friends since she was too focused on the family matters. My father and I always got along well and I have no complaints, but I can see that he could have been an asshole.

Next is another widow, my grandmother, who has complained about the lack of attention given. Some text messages should do the trick, maybe an occasional call.

I have also bough a book about social interactions from the emotional perspective which should make it easier to identify the issues and am going to listen to Three Days Grace these days since these guys tend to sing about various people problems.

is this shit actually supposed to support the theory that you are aspd or a psychopath? what is this? what is it trying to demonstrate?

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Dear Sugar

Sugar: mee. LOL

Sugar: did you tell jim you weren't interested in me and i am upset about it? lmao?

Sugar: ahahaha i am actually cracking up at the thought

Mee: I told that I'm not interested :P

Sugar: mee...

Sugar: did you realize you weren't interested when i ignored your essays you wrte me lol

Mee: It was said earlier.

Sugar: let's make sure this is documented adequately :D

Mee: Tell that to Jim, not me.

 

now is this the mastermind dangerous psychopath manipulation stuff you were referring to earlier when you likened yourself to one and i almost peed myself? this is actually kind of the reason i stopped bothering responding to your boring ass, cos you're a pussy. you tried to get me to fight with sis on your behalf and that shit makes me sick. i was watching chat, sis told you not to mention his name, and like the little boy you are, you responded in a half autistic half schizoid fashion, and then came whispering in PM to me, 'look at chat right now', thinking i'm gonna white knight your dumb ass.

so now, you've told jim's faggot ass that i somehow wanted you and i am upset that this is not reciprocated? ahaha in your schizoid fantasies little one. just ask ed how many of your boring conversations i copied to him, in awe of how one can possibly be so dull, while still trying to be kind to you as you hadn't actually done anything bad to me other than bore me to death.

and now i'm hearing that in regards to ang also getting bored half to death, your explanation was "I agitated her until she left me on purpose" ahahahahaha. just stop. be glad you still have an ego at this point ;)

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Dear Sugar

hello my darling abortion is there something you wanted to tell mama? why are you acting so scared to speak directly to me and only making bitchy indirect comments like a used up pussy lip? (ok the used up part was just me indulging)

seriously though. speak my child.

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Dear Sugar

@Cricket, thank your for your suggestion. "I feel... because..." sounds interesting, as do other ideas.

@Tryptamine, I can see what you are talking about in regard of the way I type. Not sure if it indicates anything, though.

@JimSavage, lollollol

@WW3, thanks for telling me about Sugar.

@Sugar, I opened up to the penetration to find some issues (it begun with repressed emotions and SPD), it lead me to the idea of improving the social interacting for others.The other reply was addressed in the main chat, I believe.

I haven't called anyone else yet, but I am reading the book...

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