"Conversely, it may be just another way for emos and goths to feel "dangerous". Come at this kind of poser with a real whip, and he'll likely cower in the corner and scream for mommy. :)"
From the stories I've heard/read, they usually just bitch and moan instead of cowering.
by ThropeI don't see the point of BDSM. The dom never actually gets to dominate because in the end it's the sub who decides how far things go, so in reality it's the submissives who hold the the power. If you really get off on inflicting pain and humiliation you'd just ignore the safety word and keep bullwhipping your partner until they piss all over themselves. Or you'd go out and torture a prostitute. And if the safety measures were ignored and you subs were really pushed to your limits, I doubt you'd enjoy it at all. I don't think you even have to be particularly fucked up to do get into this shit because it's all make-believe. It's just a simulation of actual sexualy sadistic behaviour. I think it's mostly bored married couples who practice it to spice up their mediocre sex lives and feel like they're living on the edge without taking any real risks. Them and attention seeking weirdos who just want to be part of the sub-culture to shock people and because they don't fit in anywhere else.
those on the outside looking in never see the whole workings of the house lol.....
Thorpe, maybe you should test yourself and see if your capable of hold a position of dominance......
the greatest leaders and rulers didnt get that way simply by beating all their subjects into submission.
most people willing submit and follow a great leader because they've proven themselves worthy of being followed.....
you idiots get waaaay to hung up on the BSDM as being about pain and punishment........
by BicuriousLove is an emotion of the weak and pathetic. You can use it to destroy people if you're patient. I LOVE fucking slimey, clever people and listening to them beg and scream for me to stop. I like gutting and cutting borderlines up into tiny pieces and feeding them slowly to my dog.
(PM to you friend: I am very hard right now. Why did you run away? Where did you go? I can see you online you know. Soon I will be even closer ;) Just give me a little more time)
What a fine example of the schizoid internal fantasy world.
How exactly do you hold a position of dominance if the other person wants exactly the same thing as you and has complete control over the situation? Domination would be if you took someone with no initial interest in the practice and systematically broke them down to the point where they'll do anything you tell them too without objection no matter how far you take it and still come back for more. Like I said, it's all make believe. If you think some silly game you play with your girlfriend makes you a leader you're a fucking joke. They say alot of powerful men relinquish control in the bedroom to take a break from the pressures of their day to day lives. I guess it works in reverse for powerless men who need to take a break from being pathetic. Truth is your missus would probably be just as happy to fuck you the normal way if you asked and only goes along with this shit because she knows you need to feel in charge every once in a while, and the only way you can do that is in your fantasies hahaha.