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You make a good point. For someone who constantly says she has issues with impulse control and who also says she always fantasises of commiting murder but yet has not acted on that, just doesn't seem to add up..

im sure she will write the predictable response we have all heard over and over again and that is how do we know she hasn't killed anyone.. But I will answer it before she asks it yet again and the answer is she is a attention whore if she was capable of murder and actually had already done it, she would be stupid enough to brag a bout it on here endlessly.. And no stabbing someone in the thigh does not count for attempted murder.. Just saying

by Gypsy

That all sounds very difficult to cope with.

The picture you paint of your daughter is kinda contradictory though - on the one hand she's rude to teachers and getting into fights, and on the other she has severe social anxiety and selective mutism. Did the anxiety problems only start after you took her out of school?

A lot of the problems my daughter had at school related to her anxiety. She was familiar with her teachers, so she could talk to them and be rude to them at times, obviously. It's only those she doesn't know very well that she refuses to talk to. And as for the fighting... that was with a girl who was being a bitch to my daughter. My daughter decided she wasn't going to put up with her shit and started fighting her. The fights were always with the same girl.

My daughter's anxiety doesn't stop her from fighting when she feels like it.

If killing people is the only thing you've ever really wanted, yet you haven't done it, you must be being modest when you say you have issues with impulse control. I have quite good self-control, but if there was only one thing I'd ever wanted badly I think I would have done it by now whatever the consequences. Where do you think this urge to kill comes from? Anger? What do you do to control these impulses?

I've acted on impulse in the past a number of times. I have some impulse control issues that I've been dealing with for a long time now and I deal with them by avoiding the situations where I know that I will act impulsively again. In most situations I seem to have a lot of self control, but there are some (particularly those where I have physical control over someone else, in an S&M situation for example) where temptation gets the better of me.

My urges don't stem from anger. I used to think they stemmed from a desire for power and control and while that may be part of it, I've since realized that they mainly stem from a desire for excitement. Murder is extremely risky. The greater the risk, the greater the thrill and that thrill is something I feel an almost constant craving for.

by Zach_31

If she was capable of murder and actually had already done it, she would be stupid enough to brag a bout it on here endlessly..

 That's where you're wrong. I'm not even remotely as stupid as you think I am.

And no stabbing someone in the thigh does not count for attempted murder.. Just saying

I agree. I don't recall anyone claiming it did, or anyone stabbing anyone in the thigh for that matter.

Trying to strangle someone to death, on the other hand, does qualify as attempted murder.

by Thrill Kill

by Gypsy

That all sounds very difficult to cope with.

The picture you paint of your daughter is kinda contradictory though - on the one hand she's rude to teachers and getting into fights, and on the other she has severe social anxiety and selective mutism. Did the anxiety problems only start after you took her out of school?

A lot of the problems my daughter had at school related to her anxiety. She was familiar with her teachers, so she could talk to them and be rude to them at times, obviously. It's only those she doesn't know very well that she refuses to talk to. And as for the fighting... that was with a girl who was being a bitch to my daughter. My daughter decided she wasn't going to put up with her shit and started fighting her. The fights were always with the same girl.

My daughter's anxiety doesn't stop her from fighting when she feels like it.

Well, it sounds like she can stick up for herself at least, so maybe you don't have much cause to worry. Do you think she could be faking anxiety and mutism to get her own way? They are probably quite easy to fake, and if she got out of school because of it then she's clearly getting some benefit from it.

If killing people is the only thing you've ever really wanted, yet you haven't done it, you must be being modest when you say you have issues with impulse control. I have quite good self-control, but if there was only one thing I'd ever wanted badly I think I would have done it by now whatever the consequences. Where do you think this urge to kill comes from? Anger? What do you do to control these impulses?

I've acted on impulse in the past a number of times. I have some impulse control issues that I've been dealing with for a long time now and I deal with them by avoiding the situations where I know that I will act impulsively again. In most situations I seem to have a lot of self control, but there are some (particularly those where I have physical control over someone else, in an S&M situation for example) where temptation gets the better of me.

My urges don't stem from anger. I used to think they stemmed from a desire for power and control and while that may be part of it, I've since realized that they mainly stem from a desire for excitement. Murder is extremely risky. The greater the risk, the greater the thrill and that thrill is something I feel an almost constant craving for.

So, what do you do to satisfy your craving for excitement? I know from experience that just avoiding the situation isn't enough, if you have a craving that bad it has to be satisfied one way or another or you'll go insane. What's your outlet?

"The picture you paint of your daughter is kinda contradictory though - on the one hand she's rude to teachers and getting into fights, and on the other she has severe social anxiety and selective mutism. Did the anxiety problems only start after you took her out of school?"

Anxiety can lead to frustration, and frustration can lead to lashing out when cornered, sort of like how a rat when cornered might behave.

Trust me.

by Thrill Kill

 

by Zach_31

If she was capable of murder and actually had already done it, she would be stupid enough to brag a bout it on here endlessly..

 That's where you're wrong. I'm not even remotely as stupid as you think I am.

 Psychopaths and sociopaths both have extremely low tolerance for impulse control, are constantly sensation-seeking, and fail to learn from previous mistakes. Identifying yourself as being "not stupid enough" to commit a murder despite these supposedly irresistible urges you claim to have completely contradicts your insistence that you have any of the characteristics associated with psychopathy because it indicates a degree of control of your urges (an incredibly high one, at that), an ability to learn from the destructive madness you've supposedly inflicted on those who you claim to have deserved your wrath (wrath is another thing that psychopaths aren't particularly concerned with).

When does your daughter's selective mutism appear? I realise that you'll Google this question and as soon as you realize the fallacy of your statement, you will attempt to divert attention away from this question. You should therefore realize that the behaviours you have described in her are not congruent with someone who has symptoms of a Conduct Disorder and Social Phobia. I'm wondering how your daughter manages to be rude to teachers and confront other students when selective mutism tends to appear only at school. In cases where it appears in the home, severe parental dysfunction (yours, in this case) and parental discord is usually attributed to the mutism.

Where did she say her daughter had a conduct disorder?

The shit you constantly speak just proves how stupid you really are..

and the stabbing in the thigh is things I have heard from other members that you apparently have said before. I believe them over you. So as far as I'm concerned you said it.

yeah trying to strangle someone to death does sound like attempted murder but I doubt you over psychically did it. You probably just wrote another shitty story and now claim you did so.

but on the chance you did do it, that means you failed at something you claim you would be so good at.. No shock on that one

If the mother is indeed a sociopath, a drug addict and the kid has grown up in a troubled environment, then TK's reports of her daughter's supposedly external using behaviours lead naturally to that conclusion. Even without meeting the full criteria for CD the kid's external using behaviours are not congruent with her silent mutism.

Um lol ok. I feel as if anyone can have anything in psychology. Who are you to say she's lying?

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