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by KiloSquarei'm not on this site to find someone new, i just wonder what this is or if anyone else is like this
yoradumasphilia
lol. so calling me a dumbass isn't insulting. along with the rest of that paragraph? please stop while you're ahead, you're just making yourself look more and more like an idiot.
by ArchangelBy no means should you associate your mental state and sexual preference with some kind of pathology - you are more sane then those other women whose mates abuse them. You are siding with destruction, they are siding with self-destruction. And self-destructive beings tend not to live long and/or prosper.
careful there, you said she is more sane than women who let these guys abuse them, but i doubt that is the truth. sanity does not include living vicariously through someone else's mistreatment of others. people who functional normally on a mental level don't get turned on by that type of thing, and people who are truly respectful of their mates don't put them in that position of violence in the first place.
in most cases (where women who were turned on by the fact that their mates were so cruel to others) they ended up on the receiving end of the cruelty they admired further down the road. it made them feel special BY association with a being so "powerful" and "aggressive", but this is actually a manipulation tactic used by mentally unstable people. they are showing you that they are not to be fucked with. it is an example of what they are capable of, and the person watching this go down will always have this in the back of their heads; the "alpha" is conditioning their "victim" to behave. that is abuse.
i think a lot of people fail to understand the term of alpha. its definition gets warped and repeated, then misconstrued, and you wind up with a totally unrealistic expectation of this character. alpha had more to do with providing for a family, and surviving in a pact, not unnecessary cruelness towards something that was never a threat to a family that never existed. little girls, especially ones without a functional male figure, romanticize what being alpha is, and take violence and a weak ego as strength. i think the OP has a distorted idea of what strength is. if s/he is only 20, it explains a lot.
i use "you" collectively not specifically. when i say OP, i am speaking directly about the OP, just wanted to clear this up.
by KiloSquarei think he makes good points, too.
haha...no. i don't want to change any of my partners. i accept (and get off on) every bit of their depravity.
special snowflake syndrome? and please oh please tell how what i posted leads to that conclusion Mr.Edvard?
You expect your partners to treat you differently from the rest of their "victims". You want them to be different to you. Hence you don't get the violent rape with pointy condom or whatever, you get the gentle fuck. What would make your partners overcome/change their nature in your case? How are you "speshul"?
It's your desire to feel above the rest of the females this way, not through your own efforts, but through your bad ass partners.
no, it is not. it isn't insulting to me, and it shouldn't be to you either. the rest of that paragraph was explaining this phenomena known as yoradumasphilia, and i take it by you getting offended by the traits, all of that applied to you.
jokes aside, you tightwad, because that is what that was, all of what i said applies to people who do have a weak sense of self. had you been your own person and developed a strong enough personality, what you witness these men doing would be seen for what it really is, mental weakness, and a distorted view on what is perceived as strong admirable traits. all of what you say is a fantasy, and it will always remain a fantasy because what you think is worth admiring in these people is nothing but an idea. this idea came from your thinking, not anyone else's, which is why you are the issue, or in the sense of my joke, the dumb ass.
in that instance I did call you that. your thinking is fucked, and i can only hope you realize the destruction of your "philias" before you end up a victim to others. you are already a victim to yourself. you can "come at me bro" more if you want, but until you are willing to listen and acknowledge what i said, and respond with a sense of wanting to learn and/or "change", i would only be repeating myself. i get bored with too much redundancy.
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by KiloSquarei think he makes good points, too.
haha...no. i don't want to change any of my partners. i accept (and get off on) every bit of their depravity.
special snowflake syndrome? and please oh please tell how what i posted leads to that conclusion Mr.Edvard?
What would make your partners overcome/change their nature in your case? How are you "speshul"?
like i said a thousand times, most don't get off sexually on this type of thing.
i didn't ditch anything. you are a dumbass. that won't change unless you want it to. admitting a fault and doing nothing about it to stop the process from happening does nothing as far as mental growth. just thought i'd inform you.
glad you read my novel to someone else. you do care what i think, but i already knew this.
well you can't blame me for thinking it was an insult. you must not have seen me reply to you other post.
by KiloSquaregood, you finally decided to ditch the name calling and give a legit opinion like an adult. you're right about some of this. like i said earlier, i can admit i have my fair share of damages, just as my partners do.