I asked if it's possible for you to be a victim without being aware of it, not if it's possible that you're sadistic.
I think the portrayal in movies and TV, show most of the sociopaths in a more favorable light than they are in real life.
There is one thing to be attracted to strength, intelligence and charisma and another thing to be attracted to someone who doesn't care about others.
There are sociopathic traits that are desirable. Then again some of them disgust me.
by The Beaves
by KiloSquarei'm not on this site to find someone new, i just wonder what this is or if anyone else is like this
your fetish seems to be one called yoradumasphilia. common characteristics are codependency, grandeur delusions of excellence on the object of desire, lack of an original personality so anything remotely obscure fascinates "victim" from being so intensely droll, and little to no life experience, leaving anything simple ( i.e., immaturity and attention seeking) seem like it took great effort to achieve, and worth admiration.
What piles said.
I know your type, we even have a few more posters like you. Mika is one of them.
no. all of my partners that were like that treated me well , and i usually knew going into it that there was something different about them. i said earlier i like when someone is callous towards others, but makes an exception for me. i'm pretty sure that's the exact opposite of craving abuse.
the bigger the contrast of ow he regards humanity and how he regards me, the more good it gets. if anything, i admit it might be an ego thing on my part.
by Edvard
by The Beaves
by KiloSquarei'm not on this site to find someone new, i just wonder what this is or if anyone else is like this
your fetish seems to be one called yoradumasphilia. common characteristics are codependency, grandeur delusions of excellence on the object of desire, lack of an original personality so anything remotely obscure fascinates "victim" from being so intensely droll, and little to no life experience, leaving anything simple ( i.e., immaturity and attention seeking) seem like it took great effort to achieve, and worth admiration.
What piles said.
k. great. glad we separated those that can read from those that can barely make out what letters mean.
I am not a troll or slow dear, that would be you. no one serious or functional would ask such an asinine question.
Tell me, because other than the extremely on point "diagnosis" of your issue this interests me the most, why did/do you end up breaking up with these people you seem to fancy so much?
You got that right. My eyes are open and I can not unsee.
So, yes, you are right. It has always been hard for me to understand how someone does not try to be a better person to those they "love". Or care about or desire or are friends with. ETC.
But i guess that is proof I am not a sadist. Although there is one person I would beat severely. But that would be vengeful and I try not to feel that way. That is why I am celibate. Because my anger lasts a long time and trust is very, very hard to rebuild.
it seems like you're one of those people that thinks every relationship that ends is a terrible one full of heartache, but whatever
the first guy i was with when i was in high school, so it wasn't as serious as the last two. so when he moved, we grew apart. the second one ended because he caught me with another guy. the third, we've been on and off, mainly due to drama with his ex-wife (he's older). we're not together right now. i'm still friends with the first one, but not the one i cheated on (obviously).