Then call the police, or quit with your crying, and get busy fuking...
Her access to me became difficult to accomplish once she only had a few people left who knew better than to have both people present. She was the kind to have her surroundings reflect her agenda in a warped fashion, something that became beyond her grasp for those around me once I finally did something about it instead of remaining a pussy about the topic. Instead of them being socially battered and prone to believing her BS like before, they had hit a point where it became easier to remain jaded and keep her out of their lives, recognizing adding her back to the group would mean two people complicating their lives instead of just one.
Last time I kept tabs was when a friend sent me the transcript of her current delusion related to how she saw things back then after seeing an anti-rape commet I made on facebook in reply to a topic posted by someone who's newsfeed crossed her path.
She was a stress mess and the words reflected factors that seemed as if she was convincing herself and justifying herself of things instead of trying to convince others of her words. She seems to have turned inward.
Since that one I've dropped it entirely. I had little shreds that had me check occasionally, but that day was a suitable final chapter. If she's still following me, it doesn't matter anymore.
I think you dodged a bullet here.
During my research of stalkers I read a testimonial about one. His target used a similar approach as you, sabotaging his social life and ruining his reputation. After some time she filed a restraining order against him, he irresistibly violated it which costed him his job. He was forced to move back in with his parents. Now with no bills, no job or any friends you would think he would give up right? No. Instead he twisted the situation in his favor, saying they were all unnecessary distractions and that now he was free to do as he pleased with no economic or social reprimands.
He would eventually break into her house and shatter her jaw with a tire iron. He claims to have done a considerable amount of time in prison for it.
I just have a hard time believing a guy would just sit there and not do anything. Okay, the first time I "understand" because according to you she was a whale, and I am sure you aren't japanese, so it wasn't in your blood to destroy her. The part that does not sit right with me is your decision to continue to be a victim after she did it once. Take the sexes out of this equation and you have two people where one was violated. The victim goes through a series of emotions. If the victim gets away, retribution should take place, and if the victim is victimized again, they snap. What the hell is up with your reactions to....well, not react?
I can't feel sorry for you, and I know you aren't expecting it, but after the first time you deserved it. You had the opportunity to take control, and all you did was sit and wait. It's like the recent flush of idiot females being captured in a home and raped for years, having the chance to get away multiple times, and not taking that chance. Maybe if you were a child, and trusted the people older than you, or maybe if you were handicapped and didn't understand what was being done to you over and over and over again, but as a functional (I'd like to think) intelligent adult? Does your well being mean that little to you that you'd rather passively get at the issues instead of annihilating it the second you get a chance?