So you're a social worker/bureaucrat?
I know your type. I bet you get a little thrill exerting power over the people you're made responsible for. Is that why you're here? Can't get enough of towering over the psychologically damaged?
by Pink01
by MalanaYour invitation is gratefully accepted.
I quite enjoy the interaction here - I did not think that I would. Nice to know I can still be surprised and am perhaps not as cynical as I previously imagined.
That makes one of us that's enjoying ourselves
You enjoy yourself Pink (most of the time) you just do not want to admit it.
by Questioning_Life
by Pink01
by MalanaYour invitation is gratefully accepted.
I quite enjoy the interaction here - I did not think that I would. Nice to know I can still be surprised and am perhaps not as cynical as I previously imagined.
That makes one of us that's enjoying ourselves
You enjoy yourself Pink (most of the time) you just do not want to admit it.
I prefer psychforums is what I meant by that comment lol.
by myrealnameSo you're a social worker/bureaucrat?
I know your type. I bet you get a little thrill exerting power over the people you're made responsible for. Is that why you're here? Can't get enough of towering over the psychologically damaged?
So you know my type do you?
How very delightful.
That is a rather powerful statement, I don't think I have crossed paths with you during my life. I am certain you would remember if we did - particularly with that attitude. I am not a bureaucrat - although I do liaise with them on a weekly basis. I am not a social worker but I do co-ordinate a team of them to ensure the requirements of the offenders are met.
My role is actually the reverse oh wise judgemental one. I design the support packages to enable the high risk violent and high risk sex offenders to re-join the community with the highest possible chance of their reintegration complete with the lowest possible risk to the community. It is not the most glamorous job, nor is it one that is particularly popular with the tax payers.
We have just implemented sweeping Parole reforms after some unfortunate deaths perpetrated by Parolee's. I really would prefer it if the offenders just learnt to contain and direct their primal urges. It would make my working week less complicated but unbalanced people will be unbalanced people.
i feel no need to 'tower over' those that are less capable than myself. Where is the gratification in that? I consider it poor sport - I enjoy a worthy adversary rather than shooting fish in a barrel.
And here I find myself sharing more than I intended - I did contemplate deleting the whole thing and just ignoring the comment but I am not perfect and my ego does take charge every now and then.
Pride always was my favourite sin 
Strangely enough Pink, I am actually enjoying myself.
I am also on PF - same name so no alt's.
I can have a similar discussion with clinicians at work as often occurs on PF.
There is a rawness here that is a little refreshing - perhaps sprinkled quite liberally with unrequited sexual needs and occasional oddly placed posts about raping and murdering left, right and centre.
Whilst this is a topic for discussion at my work due to the offending nature of our client group, it is usually rather clinical and if I were to express any appreciation of quality workmanship (I only say man because my program works specifically with males so ease down feminists out there) I would be quickly sat down for formal debriefing and assessment.
Honestly, I am not one to judge your more basic needs/urges and I do applaud the energy that some devote to satisfying those needs. If I were to offer any tips - research would be first and foremost.
If you stalk someone you will be noticed. Someone will note you, your car, skateboard, bike (mode of transport is clearly depending on your age) and you will be eventually caught. Unknown victim means precisely that, unknown.
Stalking is a relationship - albeit a little one sided and quite dysfunctional.
Back to the point - this place is quite suitable for the time being. 
