It's not just to prevent dysfunction, it outright helps with control, performance, supposedly size/intensity, etc. Even if you're already awesome in bed, it never hurts to keep improving.
Just because you don't have problems now doesn't mean you might not in the future. It never hurts to be prepared, especially when it's such a pain-free exercise you can do while just watching TV or using the internet.
by SyntheticThat might be the reason why sociopaths view their partners as objects - they can't stand the thought of someone else having enough control over them to make them orgasm.
lol. Nobody controls anyone into having an orgasm. That is simply our own body's reaction to pleasure.
Most people are viewed as objects because they have no value. Their feelings, their emotions, hopes and dreams are irrelevant.
"Nobody controls you into having an orgasm."
It is possible to sort of control your partner's orgasms. If they seem like they're close, you can always slow down to draw it out (if not stop it from happening). It's pretty much required for edging.
Ok. :) Perhaps I will try it some time. Many years ago I was on a medication... One of the side effects was that it took very long for me to get an orgasm. Girls liked it except on one occasion when I couldn't come at all. Could also have been because I was drunk... Didn't think that it would matter so much, but she made me leave her place.
by SyntheticThat makes absolutely no sense. Of course objects have value. That's why people get money. To obtain more objects. You're talking about dehumanization, not devaluation.
If something or someone is useful to me, then it has value. If it is not useful (because I cannot make use of it for whatever reason), then it has no value.
People who I deem as useless, have no value to me. They are no better than useless objects.
How hard is that to understand?