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So many life lessons that would be much better spent on someone wrought with insecurities. Though, I am interested in the red flags. What are they, and what do they suggest?

spatial is our autistic contribution

or rather the most prominent of them

u wuld get more solid advise talking to a stone

I believe everyone is on to something once in a while. I'll hear him out. The question is, why don't you like him?

i like him

what made u think i dont ?

I figured you were trolling him out of animosity rather than affection. He seems to be opinionated and looks too much into things to come up with his opinions. In a place where everyone 'wears clown suits', I imagine that might be less tolerable to some of the more prominent fakes here. I guess now I'm looking too much into things lol

again.....

there is a big difference between liking some 1 and giving a toss about their amusing ideas

as im sure u will find out as i will now retreat from the sociopathic blog for a while- give u change to get close with spatial mind and his genius brain

bond with him my friend

it will blow ur mind

Someone didn't get what I did there, but it's funny you took the time to point that out.

by MMP

there is a big difference between liking some 1 and giving a toss about their amusing ideas

as im sure u will find out as i will now retreat from the sociopathic blog for a while- give u change to get close with spatial mind and his genius brain

bond with him my friend

it will blow ur mind

 

 Lol... you always crack me up!

by Learning

Relationships between people who are commitment shy like we are usually starts off with beating around the bush and easing in to it rather than outright expression of feelings/opinions. The last thing you want to do is hear what you are feeling out loud until you've had a chance to get a handle on it. Believe it or not, things usually straighten them self out after they get together. Often times, they are the most sharing and open relationships you can have. It's just a matter of properly navigating the minefield before you are there that is tricky.

If you both have this commitment shy, beating around the bush thing, then it is twice as difficult, if not impossible, to tell what is coming from her and what is coming from you.

You are right to get your mind straight first how you want to approach this. Take care of your side, and let her handle hers.

If you always have this roundabout issue, then if I were you, I would re-examine where it comes from on your side. Do you have mommy issues with communication? or daddy issues with control and decision making? where is this coming from? are you sure you want to go through this same ritual for the rest of your life, every time?

If you are empathetic, you may be picking up her insecurities "in addition" to yours. no wonder it's so confusing.

Spatial Mind is right to focus on how much of this is about you. Get that straight first before worrying about her.