(1) yes, I agree and yes I am concentrating on my own issues. this IS my way of doing it. If you do not agree with or understand, that is your problem not mine. I can just fix my part, not yours which is up to you.
by Thrill Kill(1) Nobody asked you to come here and resolve issues. The only issues you should be concentrating on are your own.
(2) You're in no position to tell people what they should or should not be doing.
(3) Taking jabs at people to get a reaction from them can be amusing, and far more entertaining on the open forum than in private.
(2) I agree. the meaning of what I said is "they can do whatever they want". so we AGREE on the meaning though you and i both said it differently. no problem!
(3) Yes I agree here too. but if you do not enjoy when you complain about me because then "I will try to resolve it" then you are not amused or entertained by that part of the process.
is it really fun for you to keep doing this if you dislike how I respond?
i agree of course, you can do whatever you want, but you don't seem to like my response
by Thrill KillSince you don't want me to try to resolve things, then don't post things I will try to resolve!
I'm not changing my posting habits to suit you. If I post an issue that has nothing to do with you, then I would strongly advise you to stay right the fuck out of it.
it will not be to suit me, but you. it would be to quit posting things you don't want resolved because YOU are the one who doesn't like my responses trying to resolve them.
it will be to suit yourself. or in your words to stay the fuck out of problems you don't want resolved if you don't like me trying to resolve them. big fat DUH.
cause and effect. you are in charge of your posts, not me.
so if you don't like the effect, you can avoid it.
Darn TK if I had known this convo would go back and forth ad infinitum, I would have played this with Wilful when he was trying to get his post count up to 1000 in one thread!
it will not be to suit me, but you. it would be to quit posting things you don't want resolved because YOU are the one who doesn't like my responses trying to resolve them.
You are not obligated to resolve issues here. If the conflict has nothing to do with you, then stay out of it.
Problem solved.
so if you don't like the effect, you can avoid it.
I'm not going to avoid creating conflict just because you want to resolve every fucking issue that arises here. I enjoy conflict and I intend to cause more of it at some point. Since nobody will be asking you to get involved, all you have to do is stay out of the conversation.
by Thrill KillTK1
You are not obligated to resolve issues here. If the conflict has nothing to do with you, then stay out of it.
Problem solved.
ET1
I already agree to resolve my own issues.
yes, this solves the problem thank you!
TK2
I'm not going to avoid creating conflict just because you want to resolve every fucking issue that arises here. I enjoy conflict and I intend to cause more of it at some point. Since nobody will be asking you to get involved, all you have to do is stay out of the conversation.
ET2
I agree you are free to keep posting things and then complain when I reply trying to resolve my issues.
You are free to post complaints to me "in the middle of Clue's thread" and then complain that I need to stay out of the conversation.
You are free to enjoy conflict and to complain when I reply trying to resolve conflicts.
I agree you are free to do all these things TK.
Enjoy all the conflicts you want.
I thought complaints meant you didn't enjoy it,
but clearly you do or you wouldn't keep complaining.
if that brings you joy, you will keep doing it. I totally agree you should continue doing as you please, and you do not need permission from me or anyone. Totally agree. Thank you TK!
I agree you are free to keep posting things and then complain when I reply trying to resolve my issues.
If the conflict doesn't involve you than it's not your issue to resolve.
Enjoy all the conflicts you want.
I thought complaints meant you didn't enjoy it,
but clearly you do or you wouldn't keep complaining.
I'm not complaining about the conflicts. Duh.
I'm complaining about you forcing your desire for resolution onto myself and others.
I'm asking you to stay out of any conflicts I have that don't involve you. Do you agree to that?
by Thrill KillTK1. If the conflict doesn't involve you than it's not your issue to resolve.
ET1. Yes, agree, if it doesn't involve or affect me.
Note: just because something doesn't affect me directly, doesn't mean it doesn't indirectly
TK2. I'm not complaining about the conflicts. Duh.
I'm complaining about "you forcing your desire for resolution onto myself and others."
ET2. I will no longer complain about you imposing your stirring up conflicts.
If YOUR perception conflicts with mine, then yes this is half my issue to resolve
Such as if you admit you enjoy "your way of stirring up conflicts," then complain that I "impose my way of trying to resolve them" I may continue to point out these seem inconsistent. but I will not complain.
Just point out that you are the one stirring things up and admitting it.
TK3. I'm asking you to stay out of any conflicts I have that don't involve you. Do you agree to that?
ET3. No, I cannot GUARANTEE I will not post something freely anywhere on this board the same way you do.
I cannot GUARANTEE that I will let you tell me what I can or cannot do since you don't believe in someone doing that to you either.
Since your karma is what it is, I can't guarantee what will happen or not
I do know I will try to listen if you object to something I post, and try to delete the msg or fix it which has some problem with it.
as long as you keep replying honestly when you have a problem with something I post, it will get less and less over time as I get to know you Thanks TK these msgs have been very helpful
I'm not perfect but i feel we could fix things easier when they come up
I may not even post that much since most things have gotten resolved
Maybe that problem will solve ltself? usually how it goes. by the time you spell out what the problem is, it tends to stop happening. duh.
TK3. I'm asking you to stay out of any conflicts I have that don't involve you. Do you agree to that?
ET3. No, I cannot GUARANTEE I will not post something freely anywhere on this board the same way you do.
I cannot GUARANTEE that I will let you tell me what I can or cannot do since you don't believe in someone doing that to you either.
You can post freely on the board, sure, but if you can't stay out of a conflict (between myself and someone else) that I have already specifically asked you not to get involved in, then you and I are going to have some issues. That will result in a conflict YOU created by not staying out of the conversation.
You need to learn what boundaries are and I'm more than willing to teach you... the hard way.