me and noah are your friends and will always hang out with you and be there for you whatever you choose buddy
It's nice to see this tranny supporting you tc.
I was mostly questioning how it could be an insult from her towards one person and semi-complimentary towards me.
it takes to make me terribly selfish and inconsiderate.
It's closer to what I'm looking for anyway, so stop making excuses for telling it like it is.
You're welcome to call the idea retarded and yell at me over it, that's what this topic is meant to open up among other replies.
I want to see what others have to say instead of just imagining the replies.
My question to you is: Do you have good examples of people who have access to similar services as you do who've successfully transitioned into women (meaning that you really can't tell they're male)? Can you send a few pictures via private chat?
Some I've met who shifted over did a good job, but FtM tends to be more convincing based on what the eye's been trained to look for. To answer the question though, I have good examples but no, it's not my place to share them.
My point was that men who've gone through puberty have experienced several changes in their body which they won't be able to reverse by pumping up their body with estrogen. But perhaps that point is just incorrect.
Thankfully this isn't a situation where I have to worry about the world having X-Ray vision for some elements of bone structure.
The Traquea grows and coats for the voice and the appearance of the neck, otherwise how much the body mans up is more on the individual. Thankfully for me I didn't get brawny.
I also want to say that the US is incredibly sensitive about being politically correct. It's hard to get genuine opinions.
It's in their eyes, and them saying "It's so great what you're doing" strikes me as equally in-their-own-heads next to the usual reasons why I shouldn't do it. They'd look at a total trans failure and say the same things to them they said to me, so it means nothing.
I can get genuine opinions out of people no problem (as genuine as they believe it to be anyway), but I did also try the topic here instead of Facebook for example for a reason.
If a trans person wants me to call them a she, I will obviously do that. Because that's the correct thing to do and I'm not a piece of trash.
I'm a tranny myself and I still make that mistake.
I get how it's a negative reminder, but it's not like all people who presume the "wrong" gender are doing it to be hurtful.
But also if I don't, I get lynched in most places. That's why I say it's hard to get genuine opinions.
This contributes to why people bottle up before going to protests of like minded people these days.
if you think you may be delusional, then you should not go through with it.
It's easy to argue why it's bad to generally feed a delusion, but what's the harm in this specific context?
sounds like there still my be some doubt
So I should just do nothing because I have doubts over everything?
Not saying that that's the exaggerated conclusion you were headed towards, but rather my making a statement about how I see the world.
if you think you may be delusional, then you should not go through with it.
What's the harm in feeding this delusion, for the sake of argument?
It's easy to argue why it's bad to generally do it, but what's the harm in this specific context?sounds like there still my be some doubt
So I should just do nothing because I have doubts over everything?
Not saying that that's the exaggerated conclusion you were headed towards, but rather my making a statement about how I see the world.
as you know, delusional means that you are not observing your world correctly.
Very important decisions, like cutting your nuts off, should only be made with clarity. if you reach clarity afterwards, you may regret your irreversible decision. this is not like buying bitcoins or something like that.
i am purely speaking about clear decision making criteria here, not some moral bias. if you think you may be delusional, i would say no go.
Well if you've enough evidence that the services accessible will really make you look indistinguishable from other women, then I'd say go for it. If that's what you want.
It only shows me that successes exist, not that I'd necessarily be one of them.
I'm really bad at making myself take risks.
if you think you may be delusional, then you should not go through with it.
What's the harm in feeding this delusion, for the sake of argument?
It's easy to argue why it's bad to generally do it, but what's the harm in this specific context?sounds like there still my be some doubt
So I should just do nothing because I have doubts over everything?
Not saying that that's the exaggerated conclusion you were headed towards, but rather my making a statement about how I see the world.as you know, delusional means that you are not observing your world correctly.
Nono, delusional means you aren't observing THE world correctly. You can be observing your own world consistently from birth til death and still be delusional.
Very important decisions, like cutting your nuts off, should only be made with clarity.
So I should just never do it since said clarity is always there with room to question?
What makes it qualify as clarity, zealous certainty? I know I want to do it, but I'm not a zealot towards almost anything.
if you reach clarity afterwards, you may regret your irreversible decision. this is not like buying bitcoins or something like that.
What if the clarity is instead me turning 40 and seeing that it's too late to have the form I really wanted?
i am purely speaking about clear decision making criteria here, not some moral bias. if you think you may be delusional, i would say no go.
I think it depends on the nature of the delusions. Such a form would help enable delusional views, but is it doing it in disorderly ways?
Because that's the correct thing to do and I'm not a piece of trash. But also if I don't, I get lynched in most places. That's why I say it's hard to get genuine opinions.
You have no obligation to call someone by the gender they wish you to call them. Don't be easily manipulated like this.
And TC is barely passable. Looks more like a college Twink than a girl. Its safe to call him a girl.
I'd suggest a goal of being as healthy as possible and reaching peak form of current self, before switching. Before dramatically and unnaturally altering body chemistry in an attempt to become something else- first consider that current form is optimized entirely; as it will be more able to make a rational decision on the matter.
Changing of gender is not exactly ever complete. You will miss aspects of female form that many women consider vital to being female, even if they themselves lack in this area. (You'll never have children.)
The reality of the situation is that by dismissing biological gender- you are not becoming the other gender; rather becoming a broken form of what you once were.
Your current line of work gives you a very very small budget to work with as well. If rich people look botched; you surely will.
I know your face- you would not make a pretty girl.
Imagine turning 40, realizing you tried to become something you couldn't; looking in the mirror at the aftermath of your form transition. Dissatisfied that you never became what you wanted, and you never became what you could have become.
Wicked smart, eccentric, personable, respecting of others, -
You don't become who you are until you die. Your life and the choices you make, lead to the moment of death- the book is wrote; your story complete.
