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Turncoat said: 

You could try to look at what actions and mistakes you made that have led to this stage of the discussion.

 Yeah, it's me. XD

Tryptamine said: 

Turncoat said: 

You could try to look at what actions and mistakes you made that have led to this stage of the discussion.

 Yeah, it's me. XD

What's that mean here? 🤨

In the broader context, you said this:

That was not my intent, and if that's how you're seeing it I'm not sure what to tell you.

You could try to look at what actions and mistakes you made that have led to this stage of the discussion.

It's always these snide little quips like, "oh, if all it takes was 1 fight it, woulda been something else, all it takes is one thing" (italics yours). It's the undertone you set; it's the kind of frames you build.

To you, that's the more probable or the more important narrative with this, being the one your brain made you articulate. And like I said earlier, you've been doing this for a long time, calling me an abuser and so on. It didn't take long in this thread for your real feelings about all of it to come out, but it took a little digging because "oh, this is just an innocent conditional statement".

I stand by the quotes I made and the intent I had. If you want to stretch this into something bigger, that's not on me. 

Oh, is it random?

Tryptamine said: 

Congrats CS, you managed to make another thing I do all about Blanc.

That was the topic and I guess it just doesn’t make any sense any other way. Why would it matter that TC sets frames if nothing you did was about that girl? TC was just commenting and it wasn’t even directed at you.

He said it was innocent, so why not take him at his word? I guess I really just can’t see an alternative explanation for your actions or your outrage at TC, but since I don’t really care, I’ll take your word for it, as you would have done with TC, if what I wrote wasn’t true.

Turncoat said: 

Just said: 

TC was just telling that chick that she’s being crazy because she was blaming me for something I had nothing to do with.

She was triggered if anything in this case, not crazy. 🤷

He was just pointing out that it doesn’t matter whose fault it was

It kinda does matter, if it didn't then Blanc going after you over it would be that much more acceptable. 

stop blaming others for that dude’s actions.

This part's on point anyway. 

This sentiment may have made the dude a bit defensive and he saw it as an attack because TC was pretty much telling Blanc to move on and that she’s not being treated well, which signals a lack of caring on the dude’s part. I say may have because it probably just frustrates his process or whatever. This will be explained more below.

This part meanwhile is not.

I said this is a straw that broke the camel's back situation, and had it been over only one thing that then they must not care at all. 

What this is blowing up into though has raised many questions for me, it seemed like a small thing before he showed it'd been resting on his mind for days. 

and gets some of his anger out, and even potentially leads to this thread,

What led to this topic was him showing his feelings bare in the chat on here. 

In the past I've chosen to just stay out of it and see what happens, but then like a month later things mutate on their own and become that much more of a hassle to deal with. Instead I am having a chronology dedicated to the OP that can then be referenced as time goes on. 

Now, the argument that ensued has a bit to do with the underlying issue of contact with the girl, but it has also turned into a useless argument because the dude knows that TC did not mean anything by what he said, but his reaction led to this, which is kind of his goal of being seen as available because if he’s here, it means he has nothing else to do, so the chick won’t feel bad for contacting him.

So what, you think this is Tryp responding to feeling embarassed? 

You can tell this is the case because of how pointless the convo is and how obvious it was that TC was innocently commenting. The possibility that he was being mean, however, is there because they have a history of TC whitenighting for the girl and that effecting the dude negatively, as he doesn’t want to have to show his feelings in order for someone to not run from him, but TC’s comments may cause the girl to run, which means she won’t run back to the dude.

It's Blanc, she'll always come back to him. I'm sure he's not worrying about that at all, or if he is that would legitimately surprise me. 

The dude wants her to run back so he doesn’t have to admit anything and can just chill and enjoy whatever she brings to the table when she contacts him again. The TC intervention may cause him to have to reach out to her, which would really ruin a lot of things for him because then, who is doing the chasing? If it’s him, then that’s a problem because he cares, but not enough to chase in an obvious way.

The blocking was enough to warrant a 'reaching out', this instead is him overreacting over "having not made any mistakes". 

He’s like… trying to preserve the dynamic, so he can… Don’t want to give away too much, but that’s what is happening behind the scenes.

How shady. 

You’re welcome. Dude will try and refute, but TC knows why he said what he did and knows it was close to as innocent as it gets, so he can see how his comment is being used against him in a way that makes nearly no sense. Now it makes sense, huh? 

Literally said "it was likely the straw to break the camel's back" and he's still mad. 

 All you had to do was agree with what I wrote, but you couldn’t even do that. I will no longer defend your position now or in the future. I won’t assume what everyone says about you is true, but I will no longer put effort into agreeing with you. Loyalty means nothing to people these days 😔 No one gets it at all. It’s how I know this world is almost over. Everyone sucks nowadays. 

Just said: 

Tryptamine said: 

Congrats CS, you managed to make another thing I do all about Blanc.

That was the topic and I guess it just doesn’t make any sense any other way. Why would it matter that TC sets frames if nothing you did was about that girl? TC was just commenting and it wasn’t even directed at you.

He said it was innocent, so why not take him at his word? I guess I really just can’t see an alternative explanation for your actions or your outrage at TC, but since I don’t really care, I’ll take your word for it, as you would have done with TC, if what I wrote wasn’t true.

Because I was complaining about his behavior.

Just said: 

All you had to do was agree with what I wrote, but you couldn’t even do that. I will no longer defend your position now or in the future.

Why would I agree with you at the portions you got wrong? 

I won’t assume what everyone says about you is true, but I will no longer put effort into agreeing with you. Loyalty means nothing to people these days 😔 No one gets it at all. It’s how I know this world is almost over. Everyone sucks nowadays. 

Wtf? 

Do you have no interest in accuracy? 

Turncoat said: 

Just said: 

All you had to do was agree with what I wrote, but you couldn’t even do that. I will no longer defend your position now or in the future.

Why would I agree with you at the portions you got wrong? 

I won’t assume what everyone says about you is true, but I will no longer put effort into agreeing with you. Loyalty means nothing to people these days 😔 No one gets it at all. It’s how I know this world is almost over. Everyone sucks nowadays. 

Wtf? 

Do you have no interest in accuracy? 

 I was accurate. I just didn’t use the same words you used to explain the same concept, but whatevs man. I’ve been finished with this entire thing for a long time now.