You just said it wasn't her fault so I've decided not to blame her....did-
Did you want me to blame her anyways?
Ok, so why didn't you say that in the first place? So, you feel you blaming her in the first place was wrong on your part? Also- that's odd, since from the start before you even said any of this I was already saying it wasn't her fault, how many times did me saying the same statement finally convince you? So this means I was right, cs was innocent and ou were wrong? Where is the apology thread?
Your husband and I seem to be in agreement that CS is doing this to be malicious.
Delora I'm blaming you, you're the reason your husband made this thread- you've already said you think she was only trying to help, you're pulling info from a completely different thread to derail what we're talking about here in this thread where I'm saying she has ulterior motives.
You said it's not her fault, fine. So I'm saying that you felt insecure about a surrogacy arrangement that you made where you were essentially trying to pimp out your husband without his consent and you felt so bad about it your husband had to make a thread blaming her- you've at the very least not communicated with him enough to make him understand you don't think it's her fault.
You putting your insecure issues and crying about them to your husband- but you're insecure about CS, essentially pinning them on to her-
You're at fault here, and I'm trying to make that clear to you. You were upset over a problem that you created.
Also why would I make an apology thread?
I explained why you should make that thread. Anyway, but why specifically are out blaming me?
Because this thread wouldn't have been made if you had some ability to take responsibility for your actions and emotions
Well I did take responsibility, multiple times I said "I am just self conscious it's not cs,s fault," yet the thread was still made, so your statement is false as I did take responsibility yet the thread was made anyway. I understand you now know, that cs is innocent and in the right, and did nothing wrong, and that you know she did nothing to harm me in any way, as you are very intelligent loving and good with people, but I myself have had the same conclusion as you the entire time, and only recently it seems you realized I'm right. Friends? :)
So now it's your husband's fault for not understanding that you felt self conscious about a problem you created and that it's not CS fault that you wanted to pimp him out?
Why lena dear, I even apologized publically in chat about the entire thing- it just seems your a little less than up to date on the current occurrence of things, a bit to much so in the lack thereof, to be providing input, wouldn't you say?
If you don't want me to comment on a public thread your husband made you should probably ask him to post "lena pls don't comment" in the thread title next time.
And i don't follow everything you do in chat, nor does your apology change my mind about CS having ulterior motives.
If I had that kind of power, he never would have made this post. Oh so she's a scapegoat, but also she has alternate motivation and hurt my feelings on purpose to make herself feel better?
Again
Your husband and I seem to be in agreement that CS is doing this to be malicious.
Delora I'm blaming you, you're the reason your husband made this thread- you've already said you think she was only trying to help, you're pulling info from a completely different thread where I'm saying she has ulterior motives to derail what we're talking about here in this thread
You said it's not her fault, fine. So I'm saying that you felt insecure about a surrogacy arrangement that you made where you were essentially trying to pimp out your husband without his consent and you felt so bad about it your husband had to make a thread blaming her- you've at the very least not communicated with him enough to make him understand you don't think it's her fault.
You putting your insecure issues and crying about them to your husband- but you're insecure about CS, essentially pinning them on to her-
You're at fault here, and I'm trying to make that clear to you. You were upset over a problem that you created.
Also i feel like we're completely glossing over the part where you tried to pimp out your husband so you could get a kid.