Cs said she was a bad wife?
More likely that's how Delora took it. (She didn't say that, that's just how I felt, as I have said over and over)
...but you were pushing that..?
'I don't recall', amirite?
(Nope, as that wasn't my response, did you read everything, or cherry pick?)
I mean even without the CS bit, you've been making sexual suggestions about your husband and at least one other member here besides CS.
/points at self
(It was for humor which br can back up on)
You're at fault here, and I'm trying to make that clear to you. You were upset over a problem that you created.
/thread (wdym by thread?)
It's also Delora's responsibility to deal with her own feelings, though.
Because a husband should not defend his wife or attempt to comfort her?
You shouldn't expect someone to fix all of your problems for you, that's what parasites do. (I didn't expect anything he just did it)
Both her and I were, it's complicated, feelings are complex and confusing and don't always make sense.
So because of this you shouldn't have to face your own contributions towards this behind-the-back collaboration?
Your whole aim was to figure out how to get BR to fuck her without feeling guilt, all the while you waffling about how much pain you want to put yourself through. (Not really, and you have said the opposite, my you are as inconsistent as lena, it's almost like once br is involved you do a complete switch)
I'm going to be completely honest with you, a good lot of that is just trolling, and you can ask br about this, we did an entire troll together based on it and it was also good fun.
...you've already gotten to the point of speaking for BR, again? This is how he bottles and eventually explodes, when he can't even speak for his own person. (Is saying you can ask someone a question really speaking for them?)
I even reiterated over and over that I didn't think he wanted to and that I didn't want to pressure him
Your "relating" was to try to find ways to manipulate him into wanting to do it, rather than respect his wishes against it.
You wanted to gaslight him. (No, I wanted him to not know it was important to me so he wouldn't be guilted into doing it, in fact cs seemed to want to manipulate him into doing so and I was simply telling her not to)
Idk, br is my husband, and you seem to find fault on a husband (br) trying to defend his wife (me) so it kinda seemed that way
It shouldn't be his responsibility to defend you, but rather his privilege.
(Did I say that? I only was saying there's nothing wrong with jt)
You act entitled to him bailing you out of your own jams, (how, when I asked him not to make this post?) which frankly he shouldn't be saddled with, you should. It'd be one thing if he was defending you against baseless shit, it's another when he begins lashing out at people here so that he doesn't have to blame you, so that you won't drink bleach or some shit.
(I told him not to make the post, I smell jealousy)
only recently it seems you realized I'm right.
You keep trying to make it about you winning some debate here, it's not about "winning".
(Oh is that what you think this is about?)
So people should only defend people they don't love?
Not remotely what she was saying. (I didn't say that I was asking if they were)