Lady_marmalade said:I am not the best at hiding my sadness from my husbandThen stop creating scenarios for you to beat yourself up with so that your husband will notice you.
I swear you create self-harmful situations so that he'll run to your defense. After hearing your ramble as to why you like Luna, I think you just want the attention.I never said I liked luna??????
Multiple times as she'd shit on you in one way or another you'd insist you still like her, then when we were in person I asked you why and you gave me a huge ramble about how no matter how horrible she might be to you... that she's still paying attention to you, and that you loved that about her.
It was around then that I realized you liked her because of how she could hurt you.
You seem to find it impossible that br could, perhaps, be man enough to simply be acting on his own?
Seems more like you're suggesting that to not act on his own is to not be manly.
...which then looks strange with how you try to force him to do your bidding by means of threatening your own person.
until then he did believe me that my crying was hormonal like I kept telling him
So... until then he believed your lies, your... what's it called... manipulations?
Check on Gaslighting.
(No, I wanted him to not know it was important to me so he wouldn't be guilted into doing it, in fact cs seemed to want to manipulate him into doing so and I was simply telling her not to)
That's still manipulation, you're hiding the truth from him so that he won't feel bad about doing it.