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Xena said: 

Crimson said: 

Crimson said: 

I want to ruin his fucking life.

 I no longer feel like this, the past is past

 That's sweet, but very unfortunate.

You will never get even by warning people about what he is, and you will never protect other people like that.

Because there is an unspoken belief among douchebros when they're protecting one of their own, and among their Stockholm Syndrome bitches who answer their doors, their phones and their mail.

It's the woman's fault bc she's a slut and a whore.

They won't believe you, at best. At worst, they will hurt you, possibly even physically.

 

If you want to hurt him, you have to do it quietly, secretly. In disguise, with a VPN. Pretend to be somebody else until you have him.

But you have to be willing to go all the way. When a female, especially a small female, has to go up against a guy who's nearly twice as big as she is, she has to be willing to kill him. Because that's what it might actually take to stop him.

 

Unfortunately, there are no half measures in situations like this. You're not Gwyneth Paltrow or Uma Thurman. Besides some other guy who might beat the guy for you bc he wants to fuck you, too, nobody will care.

Not to be a cunt, but that's reality. It's my reality, too. And that's why I don't hesitate to maim a guy when I or my kids may be in danger.

 

So you can go all the way and lobotomize, cripple or kill him.

Or find a good therapist and try to forget about him and get on with your life.

Those are your options.

Take care and good luck.

 um, don't get me wrong, I was drugged. if I was sober I would have ripped his throat out with my teeth. I've hurt lots of men, pulled a guys tooth once. but I'm not that person anymore. Tinder removed him, his number won't be able to make a new account now, and I'm not going to jail for some cocksucker. it is what it is, and I know jujitsu so actually I'm pretty good in a fight even with bigger men, if I'm sober.

but yeah, I let shit go, hence I'm fine. I am the best therapist I've ever had :b

You’re supposed to go the hospital to do a rape kit, if it’s within the 24 hours. 

 There is other evidence of rape often too that can be examined and there are ways of finding evidence. Is why you should speak to authorities. 

Or if you’re like me, you can just watch him and wait until he does it again but get it on film that time. Because, well he will. 

Crimson said: 

Xena said: 

Crimson said: 

Crimson said: 

I want to ruin his fucking life.

 I no longer feel like this, the past is past

 That's sweet, but very unfortunate.

You will never get even by warning people about what he is, and you will never protect other people like that.

Because there is an unspoken belief among douchebros when they're protecting one of their own, and among their Stockholm Syndrome bitches who answer their doors, their phones and their mail.

It's the woman's fault bc she's a slut and a whore.

They won't believe you, at best. At worst, they will hurt you, possibly even physically.

 

If you want to hurt him, you have to do it quietly, secretly. In disguise, with a VPN. Pretend to be somebody else until you have him.

But you have to be willing to go all the way. When a female, especially a small female, has to go up against a guy who's nearly twice as big as she is, she has to be willing to kill him. Because that's what it might actually take to stop him.

 

Unfortunately, there are no half measures in situations like this. You're not Gwyneth Paltrow or Uma Thurman. Besides some other guy who might beat the guy for you bc he wants to fuck you, too, nobody will care.

Not to be a cunt, but that's reality. It's my reality, too. And that's why I don't hesitate to maim a guy when I or my kids may be in danger.

 

So you can go all the way and lobotomize, cripple or kill him.

Or find a good therapist and try to forget about him and get on with your life.

Those are your options.

Take care and good luck.

 um, don't get me wrong, I was drugged. if I was sober I would have ripped his throat out with my teeth. I've hurt lots of men, pulled a guys tooth once. but I'm not that person anymore. Tinder removed him, his number won't be able to make a new account now, and I'm not going to jail for some cocksucker. it is what it is, and I know jujitsu so actually I'm pretty good in a fight even with bigger men, if I'm sober.

 

but yeah, I let shit go, hence I'm fine. I am the best therapist I've ever had :b

 As someone who’s dealt with this kind of situation before, while it sounds like you’d give it all you got in theory to put up in a fight, you think you would, ya know. Anyone thinks they would get away somehow. 

But in reality, it’s much easier said than done, and thinking you’re going to bite their throat out with your teeth is, very unlikely to happen. 

You shouldn’t depend on your own physical ability, in these sort of situations up against men. As a woman. Because whatever you do, they will be able to over power it and thwart it, and will harm you greater than you could ever harm them, and a lot faster too. 

While in movies people struggle their way out of situations, force themselves on top somehow, and wiggle out of their grasp. In reality, this is much harder to do, than Hollywood makes it look. And if you’re not strategically trained on this, you likely won’t have much success. 

Your only bet without a weapon is to use very swift unpredictable movement to disarm and completely disable your “opponent”, using very targeted strategic areas of weakness to your advantage. But without the proper training and strength to exercise these... the reality is you’re not strong enough. 

It’s sort of like, trying to kick out a car windshield once it’s submerged in water. But people think it’s as easy as just a simple kick to the jugular, shove the palm of your hand up their nose bridge and slam their head into a desk and it’s over? 

But nothing you do is going to be enough to knock them unconscious unless you have something glass to smash into your head, and- once again, this works great in Hollywood. But in reality, the bottle just clanks onto their head and bounces off. And actually breaking a bottle on someone’s head hard enough to render them unconscious is far more difficult than it looks. 

This being said, all the efforts you can possibly think of, even the most strategic, without the proper training and strength behind them, well. Are going to be useless on the average person. And the person you’re up against is going to be resilient to your weak attack, and hurt you 10x more in response to your attempts. Putting you in a more pinned and dangerous position most likely. Making it even more difficult for you to escape. 

With no weapon, you’d think, oh it’s simple right, just run for the door and you’re free. 

I’ve tried this too, it doesn’t work. They catch up to you and grab you back. The doors locked anyway, and the window, well you can’t smash out of it without throwing a chair through it first. And you can’t do this fast enough before they stop you. 

Their grip is so strong you are unable to really do, anything. In this situations, is the reality for women. And this is why, the reality, of the numbers, of the women this does happen to, is staggering. 

Because, in *reality* this is far harder to escape, or “outsmart” in the way you think it might be. Everyone thinks, “oh they were just dumb, this wouldn’t happen to me.” “i would out smart him.” “I would beat the situation, I would just give it all i got and put up a fight.” 

But trust me, whatever you’ve thought of, it’s not enough. Nothing is. They’re stronger than you, and have already thought ahead of all the things you have, to escape. 

I asked to go to the bathroom thinking I would climb out the window and the window of the hotel room he chose, there was no window. 

You think, oh I’d scream. But, not when he has a knife to your throat, you won’t. And when you make the slightest of sounds or movements, he harms you greatly. You’re so focused erratically on escaping the situation desperately, you don’t even think to scream. You’re just trying to flee. 

But by that point it’s too late, he over powers you, and it all happens so quickly. Before you know it, it’s done. 

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not seeking professional help after these sort of things and not going to authorities is very common but i urge you to do the opposite of what most people do. There is a reason you seek higher ground on these matters. They’re trained in the expertise to best help you, in ways which you may not know you need to be looked after because you are naive to the study of psychology, and forensic criminology. 

You need to tell the authorities, and if they don’t take your case seriously hire a private investigator with a background in cyber criminal investigation, and a lawyer. 

In the meantime, stay with someone you feel safe with. It helps. For a time. 

Oh and there is an aids preventative pill that you reallly need to take, asap. It has to be prescribed, go to a clinic or hospital. Seriously, it’s worth it. 

And then request a full STD panel as well. AIDS doesn’t always show up right away as you probably know so, thats why you go ahead and take the preventative anyway, and then you have to do regular screenings after that for some time to make sure there’s nothing. 

You want to remain on top of this sort of thing because if you wait until it’s too late you’re going to regret it. 

Oh and, plan B pill. Yeah. These are all things you need to do within 24 hours so. But doing it slightly late is still way way better than nothing so get to it, asap. 

That's what I said. She has to arm herself.

Hell no an unarmed woman can't take down most guys. I've known a few extremely well trained women (brown belt in tae kwon do, red belt in karate, one said she was into kickboxing) who got their asses handed to them trying that. One was put in a wheelchair. I'm not sure if she's still alive.

Tryp and I just had a very interesting discussion about the last guy I maimed.

It turned into a big bitchfest for everybody here about 6 years ago.

It is possible, but Like I said, you have to be willing to kill the guy.

There is no bouncing some wee teacup off his head and then running away.

You have to be willing to pick up a large metal object like a cast iron frying pan or a hammer, heavy enough to do serious damage to him, but not heavy enough to slow down your swing or throw you off balance.

And you have to be willing to slam his skull with it 5, 6, 8 times, until he's down.

Which means it's extremely likely that he will die from the head trauma.

That sucks Crimson. I can't say I can relate, but I hope you're alright. I guess you already tested for STDs and took the morning-after pill.

Xena said: 

That's what I said. She has to arm herself.

Hell no an unarmed woman can't take down most guys. I've known a few extremely well trained women (brown belt in tae kwon do, red belt in karate, one said she was into kickboxing) who got their asses handed to them trying that. One was put in a wheelchair. I'm not sure if she's still alive.

Tryp and I just had a very interesting discussion about the last guy I maimed.

It turned into a big bitchfest for everybody here about 6 years ago.

 

It is possible, but Like I said, you have to be willing to kill the guy.

There is no bouncing some wee teacup off his head and then running away.

 

You have to be willing to pick up a large metal object like a cast iron frying pan or a hammer, heavy enough to do serious damage to him, but not heavy enough to slow down your swing or throw you off balance.

And you have to be willing to slam his skull with it 5, 6, 8 times, until he's down.

Which means it's extremely likely that he will die from the head trauma.

Wow, I will never make Xena angry.

You know, Crimson, if you want to have payback, the easiest way is to fly Xena to wherever you are and ask her to take care of it. She has more balls than 90% of the men here.

Crimson said: 

AliceInWonderland said: 

Life can be unfortunate. 

 I've never met someone who's had a very fortunate life.

You must not have met very many people. 

Xena said: 

That's what I said. She has to arm herself.

Hell no an unarmed woman can't take down most guys. I've known a few extremely well trained women (brown belt in tae kwon do, red belt in karate, one said she was into kickboxing) who got their asses handed to them trying that. One was put in a wheelchair. I'm not sure if she's still alive.

Tryp and I just had a very interesting discussion about the last guy I maimed.

It turned into a big bitchfest for everybody here about 6 years ago.

 

It is possible, but Like I said, you have to be willing to kill the guy.

There is no bouncing some wee teacup off his head and then running away.

 

You have to be willing to pick up a large metal object like a cast iron frying pan or a hammer, heavy enough to do serious damage to him, but not heavy enough to slow down your swing or throw you off balance.

And you have to be willing to slam his skull with it 5, 6, 8 times, until he's down.

Which means it's extremely likely that he will die from the head trauma.

 Yes 

 The only legitimate means in which a female could physically overtake a guy is if she knows a form of Ji Jitsu. 

 If we treat this as a problem of opportunity cost a gun beats out any form of physical combat as the learning curve is the   capability of point an object at another object and does not rely on the physicality of the individual. 

AppleGenius said: 

That sucks Crimson. I can't say I can relate, but I hope you're alright. I guess you already tested for STDs and took the morning-after pill.

 

Xena said: 

 

Wow, I will never make Xena angry.

You know, Crimson, if you want to have payback, the easiest way is to fly Xena to wherever you are and ask her to take care of it. She has more balls than 90% of the men here.

 lol I have to be in a life threatening situation, not just angry.

Or I would have to be getting paid enough to make it worth the possible prison sentence.

And I doubt Scar has $2million

So I'll pass, thanks  ;)

Xena said: 

Crimson said: 

Crimson said: 

I want to ruin his fucking life.

 I no longer feel like this, the past is past

 That's sweet, but very unfortunate.

You will never get even by warning people about what he is, and you will never protect other people like that.

Because there is an unspoken belief among douchebros when they're protecting one of their own, and among their Stockholm Syndrome bitches who answer their doors, their phones and their mail.

Your generalizing this time instead of going overboard is actually underestimating instead. They aren't all pre-00s frat rejects anymore, and both genders are a lot more cut and dry.

For the sake of argument, if this wasn't rape with a roofie but rather her having had enough to drink without enough food or something, yelling "rape" at someone who didn't do it would scare the person away just as quickly if they hadn't done it as it would from a guilty party. With this being the first time the two have ever been around each other in person over an app like Tinder (a sex app), I could foresee much awkward floundering. 

It's the woman's fault bc she's a slut and a whore. 

This sentiment, thankfully, is phasing out over the years. 

The very same sexuality that was being insulted is now seen as a form of liberation by enough people to off-balance the slut shamer crowd thanks to the internet and the modern porn movement. 

They won't believe you, at best. At worst, they will hurt you, possibly even physically.

Somehow even in this day and age it's easier to be believed as a woman than a man when it comes to rape, so she at least has that working for her. 

Or find a good therapist and try to forget about him and get on with your life.

Those are your options.

Take care and good luck.

She did say "again", therapy may be the way to go.