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I got date raped last night and idk what to do about it.


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Sometimes I get lonely, big shock I know.

Last night I was lonely and on tinder, usually when I'm in that need for human interaction mood I just talk to people on there and then delete the app when I'm ready for bed. but I got talking to a guy, we vibed a bit and he wanted to hang out, I was lonlier than normal I'd already opened up about how and why I didn't want to have sex but said tbh I wouldn't mind the company and conversation for a bit, and he was totally down with that.

I'm a bit, not agorophobic really just, being in my space is where I feel best and safest so I gave this guy my address, and told him I'd told a friend he was coming, just in case he really was a murderer so he would be less inclined to murder me. I didn't actually tell a friend. I have no one to tell.

he brought vodka because I told him it'd be awkward af as I am socially anxious, so I had a couple drinks, he didn't because he was driving, we talked for a while and he tried to make a move and I turned him down. he apologised and said he'd go if I wanted, but he wouldn't try again and wanted to keep talking because our convo was interesting. it was still only like 7:30pm and I believed him, so he stayed and he got me another drink.

then things started to get weird, I was feeling really drunk but I hadn't drunk that much, I threw up in the toilet and almost fell over but he caught me and was like "hey you alright? it's alright let's get you lying down" he like flopped me on the bed and I asked him for water but everything was really foggy and I can't remember if he brought it. 

What I do remember is the pain of him entering me because that was a shock, and I remember throwing up on myself after he was done, and him helping me shower. 

I don't remember him leaving. I remember waking up clean in my bed with him gone and the vodka he brought gone too. 

No evidence and too late for a rape kit. he unmatched me on tinder so I couldn't report him directly but they have a help centre and I gave them all the details I could, plus I'm sure they can check who I was matched with. But there's no point going to the police, especially in brisbane. no rape kit, no evidence. I want to ruin his fucking life, I want him to feel violated like he violated me. but I don't know how or what to do. 

and once again, I'm the gullible fool who gets raped. I just needed to tell someone I guess. 

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Make sure to get checked for STDs. 

Crimson said: 

Sometimes I get lonely, big shock I know.

Last night I was lonely and on tinder, usually when I'm in that need for human interaction mood I just talk to people on there and then delete the app when I'm ready for bed. but I got talking to a guy, we vibed a bit and he wanted to hang out, I was lonlier than normal I'd already opened up about how and why I didn't want to have sex but said tbh I wouldn't mind the company and conversation for a bit, and he was totally down with that.

I'm a bit, not agorophobic really just, being in my space is where I feel best and safest so I gave this guy my address, and told him I'd told a friend he was coming, just in case he really was a murderer so he would be less inclined to murder me. I didn't actually tell a friend. I have no one to tell.

he brought vodka because I told him it'd be awkward af as I am socially anxious, so I had a couple drinks, he didn't because he was driving, we talked for a while and he tried to make a move and I turned him down. he apologised and said he'd go if I wanted, but he wouldn't try again and wanted to keep talking because our convo was interesting. it was still only like 7:30pm and I believed him, so he stayed and he got me another drink.

then things started to get weird, I was feeling really drunk but I hadn't drunk that much, I threw up in the toilet and almost fell over but he caught me and was like "hey you alright? it's alright let's get you lying down" he like flopped me on the bed and I asked him for water but everything was really foggy and I can't remember if he brought it. 

What I do remember is the pain of him entering me because that was a shock, and I remember throwing up on myself after he was done, and him helping me shower. 

I don't remember him leaving. I remember waking up clean in my bed with him gone and the vodka he brought gone too. 

No evidence and too late for a rape kit. he unmatched me on tinder so I couldn't report him directly but they have a help centre and I gave them all the details I could, plus I'm sure they can check who I was matched with. But there's no point going to the police, especially in brisbane. no rape kit, no evidence. I want to ruin his fucking life, I want him to feel violated like he violated me. but I don't know how or what to do. 

and once again, I'm the gullible fool who gets raped. I just needed to tell someone I guess. 

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How far are you willing to go? If you feel like killing yourself remember to take him with you

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Crimson said: 

Sometimes I get lonely, big shock I know.

Last night I was lonely and on tinder, usually when I'm in that need for human interaction mood I just talk to people on there and then delete the app when I'm ready for bed. but I got talking to a guy, we vibed a bit and he wanted to hang out, I was lonlier than normal I'd already opened up about how and why I didn't want to have sex but said tbh I wouldn't mind the company and conversation for a bit, and he was totally down with that.

I'm a bit, not agorophobic really just, being in my space is where I feel best and safest so I gave this guy my address, and told him I'd told a friend he was coming, just in case he really was a murderer so he would be less inclined to murder me. I didn't actually tell a friend. I have no one to tell.

he brought vodka because I told him it'd be awkward af as I am socially anxious, so I had a couple drinks, he didn't because he was driving, we talked for a while and he tried to make a move and I turned him down. he apologised and said he'd go if I wanted, but he wouldn't try again and wanted to keep talking because our convo was interesting. it was still only like 7:30pm and I believed him, so he stayed and he got me another drink.

then things started to get weird, I was feeling really drunk but I hadn't drunk that much, I threw up in the toilet and almost fell over but he caught me and was like "hey you alright? it's alright let's get you lying down" he like flopped me on the bed and I asked him for water but everything was really foggy and I can't remember if he brought it. 

What I do remember is the pain of him entering me because that was a shock, and I remember throwing up on myself after he was done, and him helping me shower. 

I don't remember him leaving. I remember waking up clean in my bed with him gone and the vodka he brought gone too. 

No evidence and too late for a rape kit. he unmatched me on tinder so I couldn't report him directly but they have a help centre and I gave them all the details I could, plus I'm sure they can check who I was matched with. But there's no point going to the police, especially in brisbane. no rape kit, no evidence. I want to ruin his fucking life, I want him to feel violated like he violated me. but I don't know how or what to do. 

and once again, I'm the gullible fool who gets raped. I just needed to tell someone I guess. 

 

First, go to the doctor and get a morning after pill. You don't want that creep's spawn growing inside you. Looking at a rape baby for the rest of your life will be way worse than most STDs.

Then lure him back by lying and telling him you liked it. That's right. Tell him you liked it and send him some revealing (but not incriminating) lingerie pics.

Horny creeps who have to use date rape drugs are idiots. They believe women are just as dumb as they are and that they have multiple orgasms every time they think about penises.

 

We both know that's not true, but they don't. So use the asshole's misconceptions about you to find weak spots to exploit when you go back on tinder and chat him up.

Get him to come over again, but this time, arm yourself. Or if you don't think you can handle him yourself, have a few large burly male friends hiding in the closet or smthg.

Be sure to have a plausible and compelling story ready, just in case he goes to the police and tells them you're a whore and you tried to rob him. Several of my friends have had this happen, and that's what these creeps usually do when they get charged with rape. So be prepared.

Or consider fucking him up so badly that he will be physically unable to tell the police anything, if you know what I'm saying  ;)

 

And for future reference, don't bring these guys to your home, and don't drink alcohol with them, don't let them touch your food, and be careful about introducing them to your friends. Think of them as a red eyed and possibly dangerous hitchhiker you're about to pick up, and all the things you would do to prepare for that particular situation.

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Xena said: 
Crimson said: 

Sometimes I get lonely, big shock I know.

Last night I was lonely and on tinder, usually when I'm in that need for human interaction mood I just talk to people on there and then delete the app when I'm ready for bed. but I got talking to a guy, we vibed a bit and he wanted to hang out, I was lonlier than normal I'd already opened up about how and why I didn't want to have sex but said tbh I wouldn't mind the company and conversation for a bit, and he was totally down with that.

I'm a bit, not agorophobic really just, being in my space is where I feel best and safest so I gave this guy my address, and told him I'd told a friend he was coming, just in case he really was a murderer so he would be less inclined to murder me. I didn't actually tell a friend. I have no one to tell.

he brought vodka because I told him it'd be awkward af as I am socially anxious, so I had a couple drinks, he didn't because he was driving, we talked for a while and he tried to make a move and I turned him down. he apologised and said he'd go if I wanted, but he wouldn't try again and wanted to keep talking because our convo was interesting. it was still only like 7:30pm and I believed him, so he stayed and he got me another drink.

then things started to get weird, I was feeling really drunk but I hadn't drunk that much, I threw up in the toilet and almost fell over but he caught me and was like "hey you alright? it's alright let's get you lying down" he like flopped me on the bed and I asked him for water but everything was really foggy and I can't remember if he brought it. 

What I do remember is the pain of him entering me because that was a shock, and I remember throwing up on myself after he was done, and him helping me shower. 

I don't remember him leaving. I remember waking up clean in my bed with him gone and the vodka he brought gone too. 

No evidence and too late for a rape kit. he unmatched me on tinder so I couldn't report him directly but they have a help centre and I gave them all the details I could, plus I'm sure they can check who I was matched with. But there's no point going to the police, especially in brisbane. no rape kit, no evidence. I want to ruin his fucking life, I want him to feel violated like he violated me. but I don't know how or what to do. 

and once again, I'm the gullible fool who gets raped. I just needed to tell someone I guess. 

 

First, go to the doctor and get a morning after pill. You don't want that creep's spawn growing inside you. Looking at a rape baby for the rest of your life will be way worse than most STDs.

Then lure him back by lying and telling him you liked it. That's right. Tell him you liked it and send him some revealing (but not incriminating) lingerie pics.

Horny creeps who have to use date rape drugs are idiots. They believe women are just as dumb as they are and that they have multiple orgasms every time they think about penises.

 

We both know that's not true, but they don't. So use the asshole's misconceptions about you to find weak spots to exploit when you go back on tinder and chat him up.

Get him to come over again, but this time, arm yourself. Or if you don't think you can handle him yourself, have a few large burly male friends hiding in the closet or smthg.

Be sure to have a plausible and compelling story ready, just in case he goes to the police and tells them you're a whore and you tried to rob him. Several of my friends have had this happen, and that's what these creeps usually do when they get charged with rape. So be prepared.

Or consider fucking him up so badly that he will be physically unable to tell the police anything, if you know what I'm saying  ;)

 

And for future reference, don't bring these guys to your home, and don't drink alcohol with them, don't let them touch your food, and be careful about introducing them to your friends. Think of them as a red eyed and possibly dangerous hitchhiker you're about to pick up, and all the things you would do to prepare for that particular situation.

 I can't lure him back because he knows, I don't remember the end of the evening but I'm sure I probably was calling him a rapist and threatening him in a slurred way. he unmatched me on tinder, I found his instagram NathanYoung.6.9 < not entirely sure of the periods, but the pic is of him with an old blue holden. but it was a private account and when I requested a follow he blocked me because I can't see the account anymore. Already did the morning after pill and scheduled a drs appt for tomorrow but as far as revenge goes... I'm not willing to be a monster like him. he worked for an arborist company like mulching cut trees and shit, wish I asked him which company. I just want people to be aware so no one else gets hurt.

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oh just checked my email

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that's something at least

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Crimson said: 

I want to ruin his fucking life.

 I no longer feel like this, the past is past

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Life can be unfortunate. 

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Life can be unfortunate. 

 I've never met someone who's had a very fortunate life.

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Crimson said: 
Crimson said: 

I want to ruin his fucking life.

 I no longer feel like this, the past is past

 That's sweet, but very unfortunate.

You will never get even by warning people about what he is, and you will never protect other people like that.

Because there is an unspoken belief among douchebros when they're protecting one of their own, and among their Stockholm Syndrome bitches who answer their doors, their phones and their mail.

It's the woman's fault bc she's a slut and a whore.

They won't believe you, at best. At worst, they will hurt you, possibly even physically.

 

If you want to hurt him, you have to do it quietly, secretly. In disguise, with a VPN. Pretend to be somebody else until you have him.

But you have to be willing to go all the way. When a female, especially a small female, has to go up against a guy who's nearly twice as big as she is, she has to be willing to kill him. Because that's what it might actually take to stop him.

 

Unfortunately, there are no half measures in situations like this. You're not Gwyneth Paltrow or Uma Thurman. Besides some other guy who might beat the guy for you bc he wants to fuck you, too, nobody will care.

Not to be a cunt, but that's reality. It's my reality, too. And that's why I don't hesitate to maim a guy when I or my kids may be in danger.

 

So you can go all the way and lobotomize, cripple or kill him.

Or find a good therapist and try to forget about him and get on with your life.

Those are your options.

Take care and good luck.

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