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Whorechata said: 

Tryps bout to smash the fuck outta CS soon

 And then in 6 months blanc will be posting gifs of manic pixie girls and main characters in crazy quirky love and calling them her and tryp

That poor kid.

 I would like to take credit for freeing Tryp of Blancs NPD clutches, as telling people to "leave" does not work, I just clowned him over how blanc treats him like this post in June 2020:

MartinLooterKing said: 

You have it good. You dont have to give him any pussy or do anything for him and still get all this attention and validation.

 I think me constantly making fun of him over how she treats him had it's effect, as if I was just to say leave she's bad for u wouldnt work. Verbal abuse is a good method for destroying unhealthy attachments. Free codependency treatment by Dr. Pedo Phil

He asked to be with me not the other way around. And then I broke up with him because he cheated on me. And then after that he kept drunk texting asking to be with me and I just kind of ignored it because he was drunk. 

we were only in a relationship for maybe 3 months total, the rest of the time he was just drinking a lot and then sometimes he said he loved me sometimes he said he hated me. And even if we flirted with the idea of getting back together, it didn’t really ever happen. 

Mainly because I couldn’t take him seriously in the state that he was in. We both agreed he needed to get his shit together and that I didn’t want to be wirh someone who was drinking and not helping themselves. 

So it didn’t work out because of his choices. I waited for a longb time casually just seeing what would happen if he would decide to get better on his own but he kind of tried and then kind of got worse in some ways. And then I became less attracted as the “go and stop” behavior continued. (I hate you I love you, sending mixed signals, inconsistency) I entertained the idea of him being seriously in my life less and less seriously. 

And then this whole thing with him yeah not, really progressing in in anyways, and, also constantly berrating and hating on me with no room for discussion or an ability to hear me out or understand me, his stubborn hatred for me grew more and more intense in recent months, largely based in judgement assumptions and misperceptions- and then finally he decided to flirt with other girls and fuck them basically in front of me by making sure I knew about it making it public on SC and talking about fucking other women frequently in public chat like the local liquor store cashier.

We had fun times together as friends but, he has changed significantly since then. I keep waiting for the old him to return but it never does. He is different now. Much more black pulled and curmudgeony, especially toward me. 

At a certain point someone wants to drive you away, you should just let them. 

rhats Why I don’t understand why people keep talking about the idea of us as if it’s not dead and gone. He’s not even the same person anymore, and I’ve grown a lot since then. It was literally two years ago. 

And he’s doing his own thing now. “We” “us” isn’t a thing. He hasn’t wanted it to be for a while and he has expressed that blatantly many times now.

So I just don’t understand why people keep talking about the “couple” idea as if we were an item when we haven’t been for a very long time and he doesn’t want there to be.  

No one here is the bad guy or has done anything horrifically wrong to the other. We just didn’t work out. I’m not right for him he doesn’t like me for who I am lol and he isn’t right for me because I only liked the sober him. Just because we had decent chemistry it doesn’t mean anything if he has lost the drive to pursue it and if we argue more than we enjoy each other’s company.

And the title of this thread as well as the original post was a joke mans sarcasm 

Because if you know you know. He did this sort of drunk texting “I love you” thing repeatedly and alena and many other people caught onto it and made fun of the oscillations he would go through with me and his feelings about me seemingly at random. 

so it was a joke like, “look he did that funny thing again” 

its a joke because the next day he hates me. And so forth, and so forth, and everyone is well aware that it just never ends.

so I was calling it “the romance continues” as a joke. 

I literally would ask him every time he did this, “are you going to change your mind in the morning or in 1-2 weeks from now” and he’d always say “no!!!!!” But he did. Without fail. Eventually after like 35 times of it I just took it less and less seriously. 

he doesn’t even remember half the things he’s said to me or half the conversations we’ve had. And his opinion of me fluctuates frequently. As well as like his behavior toward me, and the way he acts as a person in general. 

he’s just a moody kinda person. Which is why he reminds me of Kurt cobain. Lol 

it’s not a bad thing it’s just how he is.

This is more of a reminder Blanc, you tend to forget you guys are over and why and then get mad when he gives any other female attention. 

Truly hope it's over and you move on to something better.

Whorechata said: 

Truly hope it's over and you move on to something better.

You mean women? 

Blanc said: 

He asked to be with me not the other way around. And then I broke up with him because he cheated on me. And then after that he kept drunk texting asking to be with me and I just kind of ignored it because he was drunk. 

we were only in a relationship for maybe 3 months total, the rest of the time he was just drinking a lot and then sometimes he said he loved me sometimes he said he hated me. And even if we flirted with the idea of getting back together, it didn’t really ever happen. 

You forgot to mention how you tried to "turn him into the perfect boyfriend" by breaking him down mentally and rebuilding him xD

Mainly because I couldn’t take him seriously in the state that he was in. We both agreed he needed to get his shit together and that I didn’t want to be wirh someone who was drinking and not helping themselves. 

While you replased Heroin and fucked around...

So it didn’t work out because of his choices. I waited for a longb time casually just seeing what would happen if he would decide to get better on his own but he kind of tried and then kind of got worse in some ways. And then I became less attracted as the “go and stop” behavior continued. (I hate you I love you, sending mixed signals, inconsistency) I entertained the idea of him being seriously in my life less and less seriously. 

And then this whole thing with him yeah not, really progressing in in anyways, and, also constantly berrating and hating on me with no room for discussion or an ability to hear me out or understand me, his stubborn hatred for me grew more and more intense in recent months, largely based in judgement assumptions and misperceptions- and then finally he decided to flirt with other girls and fuck them basically in front of me by making sure I knew about it making it public on SC and talking about fucking other women frequently in public chat like the local liquor store cashier.

I hear the "you dont understand me" bs from narcissistic women alot, its more like he does not buy into your delusional view on reality or conforms to your desires.

We had fun times together as friends but, he has changed significantly since then. I keep waiting for the old him to return but it never does. He is different now. Much more black pulled and curmudgeony, especially toward me. 

At a certain point someone wants to drive you away, you should just let them. 

rhats Why I don’t understand why people keep talking about the idea of us as if it’s not dead and gone. He’s not even the same person anymore, and I’ve grown a lot since then. It was literally two years ago. 

And he’s doing his own thing now. “We” “us” isn’t a thing. He hasn’t wanted it to be for a while and he has expressed that blatantly many times now.

So I just don’t understand why people keep talking about the “couple” idea as if we were an item when we haven’t been for a very long time and he doesn’t want there to be.  

No one here is the bad guy or has done anything horrifically wrong to the other. We just didn’t work out. I’m not right for him he doesn’t like me for who I am lol and he isn’t right for me because I only liked the sober him. Just because we had decent chemistry it doesn’t mean anything if he has lost the drive to pursue it and if we argue more than we enjoy each other’s company.

 Because even though you are talking all this "I dont want to be back i dont want him" bs you still sperg at him for giving attention to other girls and not being available when you want him to be, being dishonest with yourself and others. Why not improve yourself and make another attempt to get him? You are one of the few white girls I know with a juicy thicc ass so it should not be too hard if you switch up your personality a bit.

Why do you do badly want me to be the bad guy? I’m not going to sit here and defend myself to an internet troll for hours. But yeah if this is the story you want to spin on me, and distort the truth to suit your own perrogative, then what’s the point. 

You were raised by someone who really badly damaged the relationship you and the female figure in your life and you often try to paint a lot of women in this light, the same light you see the person who hurt you in some way, as. 

And I understand because I’ve been there, seeing reality in a distorted way because of shit you went through.

Its okay to have this sort of reaction. I am just one of the most open people here so it’s easiest to Make someone who is very open, into a vulnerable target for judgement. 

It’s the internet. It happens. But, the person you are describing, that’s not how I am at all. 

it’s just the way you’re seeing things, and everyone sees things differently and that’s okay. All I can do is continue to be open and honest and live my authentic life. And not worry about the  judgement and perception others have of choose to have. 

ive done what I can to clarify as best I can but... yeah. I dunno what else I can do 

and I’m not trying to invalidate anyone’s opinions. We all have got a right to our own individual opinions and yeah. You do you man. No biggie. No hate. I get it. 

I accept everyone’s opinions as valid 

if it weren’t for differing perspectives how could we have progress or change. It’s not about being the most right or the most factual sometimes there is benefit to the sheer variation to provide insight to ourselves and find growth from it in some way. So thanks for sharing your opinions with me and I hope it can make me better or the world a better place in some way. 

Blanc said: 

Why do you do badly want me to be the bad guy? I’m not going to sit here and defend myself to an internet troll for hours. But yeah if this is the story you want to spin on me, and distort the truth to suit your own perrogative, then what’s the point. 

I don't think you are an evil person with ill intentions, I think you are self centered and resisting certain facts like having been too focused on yourself and not fulfilling tryps emotional needs (like leaving while he is venting, I always sit and listen when he vents and I am a man and he does the same for me, what the fuck is wrong with you? how did you end up so selfish as a woman)

Your ex-boyfriend used to listen to me whine about my BPD stuff and provide emotional comfort and I am some fat faggot from across the world, he's your BF and you are a woman and you can't do this for him?? And then lash out at him when he's not there to provide it for you? Again I don't think you are an evil person, it's just the sense of entitlement and cluelessness is mindbending for me.

You were raised by someone who really badly damaged the relationship you and the female figure in your life and you often try to paint a lot of women in this light, the same light you see the person who hurt you in some way, as. 

Could be, or I could have had experience with self-centered exploitive before, and can recognize it more easily and give people less benefit of doubt. It's a perspective thing

And I understand because I’ve been there, seeing reality in a distorted way because of shit you went through.

Its okay to have this sort of reaction. I am just one of the most open people here so it’s easiest to Make someone who is very open, into a vulnerable target for judgement. 

You are an easy target because you are a stereotype: denying personal responsibility and wrongdoing, self-centered, unwilling to accept consequences

It’s the internet. It happens. But, the person you are describing, that’s not how I am at all. 

When everyone around you is an asshole, guess who's the asshole?

it’s just the way you’re seeing things, and everyone sees things differently and that’s okay. All I can do is continue to be open and honest and live my authentic life. And not worry about the  judgement and perception others have of choose to have. 

ive done what I can to clarify as best I can but... yeah. I dunno what else I can do 

 To me here the most glaring thing is that you continue to defend and rationalize your behavior instead of just ignoring all this and moving on, as if there's still a modicum of realization deep inside you somewhere that your behavior is not right and you are doing something bad/wrong, just let it consume you and snap into self awareness.