Thank you for your honesty. :)
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For those of you who are not asexual, what is your opinion about the idea that some people do not experience sexual attractionI feel sorry for them and believe they're missing out on a huge aspect of life and human interaction. I'll try to understand the reason behind someone being asexual. Is it just absent libido? Maybe it's hormones then, and odd in young people. Is it disgust/revulsion/discomfort when it comes to sexual intimacy? I tend to believe it's smth psychologically negative, some trauma, some fear, some insecurity.
Why do you feel sorry for them? It's their choice not to have sex, that means they are "missing out" because they don't like it
Not being able to desire or enjoy sex is what's worth feeling sorry for.
and would you consider dating someone asexual?No.
It's way too difficult for someone sexual and someone asexual to have a working long term relationship imo. Seems too big a compromise to me, with both people feeling bad about it.
You'd reject someone because she won't fuck you?
Didn't expect anything else from you, Eddie. That's just you, lol
A lot of people would actually. People with libido might be patient, wait for the right time, but they likely will want to fuck somewhere down the line unless something is blocking their interest. Even those who prefer someone for their brain are going to want to mind fuck them eventually if the drive is there.
It's not you nini. I don't understand why people have to push a specific person for sex, either.
I mean, what's wrong with finding a bar slut if your room mate isn't interested? It's very easy to walk away and find smthg better if the object of your erection turns out to be asexual.
People who have to get pushy about sex have control issues.