Cricket Von Chirp stated: source post
What woman, or man, doesn't complain? C'mon! That's not a symptom of BPD.
Most BPD symptoms are nothing special. They do what any typical person does, except with bad timing and to the extreme.
I questioned if she complains about workmates "almost daily". Complaining is one thing, but when it's always the world's fault, that's different.
Cain, if you want serious advice on dealing with bipolarity in a relationship, PM me when i'm on.
Basic advice, when they are depressed, be a light in the darkness a couple of times a day. A sandwich used to do a lot for me. "baby, do you need a coffee?"
.When they are manic, take what you can and try to take it as best you can.
Also keep you together, try to do other things so you can be cool when they are less intense.
Bipolar people need their bae's more than they can express.
So I will go out and assume it is possible your girlfriends are all normal. In this case it would mean the emotional outburst are natural mood swings that are amplified.
I have said a lot of people look to their surroundings to know how to act and be normal.
Baby A: The first baby falls hard and looks around. It comes to the mother’s attention and she rushes over screaming all worried. It brings the baby too tears because the baby thinks it should be reacting more. From that moment on the baby cries when it falls.
Baby B: The second baby falls hard and looks around. It comes the mother’s attention and she just smiled before picking the baby up while saying whoopsy daisy. It brings the baby to keep playing despite the mild lingering pain from the initial fall. From that moment on the baby just gets back up when it falls.
I think if this is the case there are ways you can help her be calmer day to day. I would suggest never ever telling a girl to calm down. I will tell you right now the best response you can get from that is the women concealing her feelings and growing in resentment and anger. It will be subtle though she will feel more and more alone and it will worsen the outburst. I find the best way to handle the situation is to deescalate the situation.
From time to time just pretend you understand (even if you do not. It could be she just wants someone to listen to her and she is being dramatic to try to hold your attention. I would like to remind you to only do this sometimes so she does not feel alone. Reinforce stuff like…
“I totally understand I have feel the same sometimes I just have trouble expressing it!â€
“I can’t believe itâ€
“I know right!â€
For the part where you want to persuade her to be calmer I suggest reinforcing it. So when you see her being calm. Reinforce stuff like…
“I like it when you act so mature and level headedâ€
“I love how you behave so much like an adult unlike others honeyâ€
“I am so seduces when I see you relaxing let me help you ease up rubs backâ€
“It is so hot when you are emotionally stable and in control of your emotions and I want you to use that same level of control on meâ€
If you want to know about bipolar disorder watch the black box show.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_qL4MBt_uU
Spatial Mind stated: source post
Cricket Von Chirp stated: source post
What woman, or man, doesn't complain? C'mon! That's not a symptom of BPD.
Most BPD symptoms are nothing special. They do what any typical person does, except with bad timing and to the extreme.
I questioned if she complains about workmates "almost daily". Complaining is one thing, but when it's always the world's fault, that's different.
Spatial...they are fucking insane. Amazed there are not more homicides OF BPDs as opposed to BY BPDs.
I heard bipolar disorder is not rapid mood swings. It is phases of mania and hypomania. It can last a weeks or more. If this is correct then it means there is one sudden change to a permanent state between two states.
A song about bipolar
Primal stated: source post
Spatial Mind stated: source post
Cricket Von Chirp stated: source post
What woman, or man, doesn't complain? C'mon! That's not a symptom of BPD.
Most BPD symptoms are nothing special. They do what any typical person does, except with bad timing and to the extreme.
I questioned if she complains about workmates "almost daily". Complaining is one thing, but when it's always the world's fault, that's different.
Spatial...they are fucking insane. Amazed there are not more homicides OF BPDs as opposed to BY BPDs.
Funny thing about BPD. Describing it sounds like typical behavior. If they set you up, the monster goes away, but between you and them it's like a secret drama where they keep drilling at you, as if they are unaware of their dark thought about you are being played out. I have this mechanism where I laugh every time I read or talk about BPD.
I don't stray away from the BPDs I know, I just stay at a safe distance. She'll call every now and then, take an emotional dump then leave me be while the pieces of my soul she consumed regenerates. Every time I'm left in awe that this character really exists. She's like a Pegasus, or dragon, or medusa or some kind of mythical creature right out of Clash of the Titans.
A being with the ability to bend reality with the sole purpose of innocently destroying their prey. I can't say for sure if this is the intent, cause the BPD would become enraged if you brought up their effect, but that's how they come across as.
The one who learns to love the BPD unconditionally without bitterness, will probably receive unheard of rewards for their soul. But they will have to live their lives as a scratching post.
Spatial Mind stated: source post
I have this mechanism where I laugh every time I read or talk about BPD.
That is all a person can do. I read, attempt to shift perspective..get banned. So...fuck it..lol Waste of time.
I can't say for sure if this is the intent, cause the BPD would become enraged if you brought up their effect, but that's how they come across as.
Stick a knife in them. They die. Better is to run like your ass is on fire. Keep an eye out for shit for brains, and make yourself scarce.
The one who learns to love the BPD unconditionally without bitterness, will probably receive unheard of rewards for their soul. But they will have to live their lives as a scratching post.
Forget that noise. Life is too short.
BPD create their own suffering and then spread their shit around. So, fuck it /them and the crazy train they ride in on. The online breeds of BPD attention whores with the covertnarc mix of the ultra fucked up, is another thing that needs to die...lol...but whatever, it is kind of funny as well.