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they say love blinds


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I would agree, because I'm about 99% sure my girlfriend is bipolar.

 

How should I handle this?

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Ignore her completely when shes enraged, don't let her rob you when she tries to leave, and just tough it out. Some of them are worth it. Or just leave.

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Wouldn't ignoring her make her even more mad? Or maybe she will switch into ultra depressed mode. Where she comes crying how she feels ignored, then sobs on about her dog etc etc. 

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Well I think love can cover a multitude of flaws. In an abusive relationship I do not think it is love alone. I think there is fear of the individual and fear of a life without them. It becomes somewhat of an imagined dependency.

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Ignoring her while she's upset will feel the equivalent of her feelings being invalidated or unimportant to you. Let her know that you are there for her if she needs to cry or wants to talk calmly, but don't play in to arguments or screaming matches. If she starts with something like that say something to the effect of "Babe, I love you and I am always here for you. I know that you're going through a difficult time right now. Let me know when you are ready to talk." Confirm that you are understanding the issue she is having by asking directly, "So what I'm hearing you say is..." And no matter what happens, try not to raise your voice. Remember also that she is allowed to be upset, but that it's not an excuse to take advantage of or abuse you. Do not tolerate that.

 

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thats alot of work for a wet hole and um that's about all you got to offer xd

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Cain could go out and find other holes if he wanted, but he seems insistent on keeping this one in particular. If he wants to keep her around while still keeping his life calm, it's going to take some effort.

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you're the one special wet hole for me bay <3

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ditch her and don't look back

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So because somebody is bipolar there is no circumstance that you could love them?

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