Spatial Mind stated: source post
The scenario of the woman offering to pay for the meal, and the man allowing it ?
I think it's fine. Hell, I'd argue how a woman that gives and secures a man's wealth is a better catch, and is less likely to take him for a ride and run off with half his belongings.
What if the woman was the primary money-maker, or even as far as the man being the dependent in the relationship? A woman paying for the meal isn't about "securing a man's wealth" any more than it is when it's the genders swapped, purely judgeable in a case by case basis outside of gender. At most, society finds one more excusable than the other, which might make for more commonality from one than the other, but there's more than enough cases of men having to rely on a woman to survive to not slap a sexist assumption onto it.
Edvard stated: source post
I find this mug thing funny and badass in a cute way, I'd buy those for women I know.
Fuck them, I want one for myself.
As an inventor and creative artist, I find that quote 100% true.
How many patents do you have on your inventions? Being an inventor is hard nowadays.
Spatial Mind stated: source post
Get your head out of the clouds and let's get real here. It only takes 1 person to fuck up a relationship. If that weren't the case, then we'd see more ongoing relationships. People don't need their partners approval to end the relationship,.
That's mostly true, but there are people who can only really leave if the other is why they're splitting, or if it was an agreed upon consensus.
Generally when a relationship is ending, both people are fucking up at once, but it does technically only take one of them fucking up to throw a spanner into the works.
For the first time in 2014 I ended my relationship with my cheating off and on ex. I don't feel sour over it because the feelings i had for her were long gone. She was actually getting on my nerves too. I never pointed any fingers here, even though I caught her cheating. I felt no way about it, and at the time my heart was with another. Best thing to do was move on.
As for the woman I have the strongest feeling for. She's pretty fucked up. It wouldn't surprise me if she would get 2 men come to my house and throw me in the back of a car, then put me in a cell.
You sound like you really know how to pick 'em Spatial. I wonder how much that your views on women might be steering you towards women that will prove your views correct.
This also screams emotional rewrite of events. So many people are prone to this, not to save face with others, but to save face with themselves. I have a hard time believing that you've been fine across this entire thing, especially with the views that are likely a backlash of your past relations with women. If it was really this sort of ease, then you likely weren't very attached in the first place.
I don't think any of this has to do with me being a man, and none of the women in my life hate me. ( Maybe the crazy one does I just don't make contact with it )
So... if they don't like you, they're probably crazy?