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being able to pay for shit (convenient, mm?), being able to take the lead when necessary, having at least some semblance of manners and not being overly emotional.

True. 

Men being men. Tell me what that is? Then tell me what women being women would look like.

You didn't tell me what a woman is supposed to be. 

What personal standards do you hold yourself to as a woman? When is it necessary for a man to take the lead? Are you expensive on dates? When you say "being able to pay for shit", do you mean being able to pay their own bills or being able to pay for your shit?

That's interesting. Old fashioned is a funny concept to me. Especially when someone who seems so rebellious uses it! I can't decide if they're fond of the idea of old fashioned, fooling themselves about how they want to be, or is it just a paradox.

To me, rebellion is a sign of forward thinking, and a desire for old ways to be challenged and changed. How do you challenge old ways of thinking, and embrace them at the same time? Sounds like grounds for major internal conflict. Two sides of a whole in constant opposition.

old stupid ways? yes. but i like for men to be men. that is interesting though, the idea of an internal conflict in relation to these supposedly opposing ideas. to me though, i'm a person. being 'rebellious' in certain ways would mean that going along with the conventions of rebellion would be something i detest, no?

one more time, little boy. you try to make this about you one more time and whooosh..gone!

She meant that she would take the analysis to pm. Read again. Also, please just stop. What I meant is, I don't want your bullshit all over this thread. Sugar can fend for herself just fine. But if I'm going to get anywhere with this, I'm going to need you to stfu. It's too distracting and I don't want to have to sift through all your crap to get to her answers. Is that plain enough for you?

Yes. It always has been.

i don't know what a woman is supposed to be tbh. we are capable of being more adaptable while still retaining femininity. weakness in either gender (adults) is repulsive to me.

i don't know what kinda personal standards i hold myself to in terms of being a woman. it's not that simple to me, it's more about who i am as a person. with family, understanding and being the glue of sorts. when it comes to work, meticulous quality. everything else is dependent on specific factors.

and i mean being able to pay for my shit, but not necessary paying. being self sufficient and financially stable, as far as it's possible. i'm not particularly expensive..i am partial to being spoiled though. and vice versa of course

Well, in a way, defending yourself is an act of provocation. You are proactively asserting control in a situation where you were intended to be subjugated.