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Your mom does.

i disagree

nobody cares about what you want

Turncoat stated: source post

I meant her, but either... come to think of it. 

i agree

Let's focus on domination first.

Has anyone ever been able to dominate you, and if so, what was it they did that made you feel safe enough to surrender? 

ImNotHer stated: source post

This thread is going to end up moving at a snail pace. Let's try to move it along a little quicker, shall we? mhmm..

Personally, I see you as someone with intimacy issues who wears a lot of tough girl armour. You're fairly critical of everyone around you because of trust issues, and take a guilty until proven innocent approach when getting a feel for anyone new.

i wouldn't say that's true for everyone, but when i am suspicious, i usually expect the worst.

I see you as someone who quickly jumps to conclusions and once you've made your mind up about something or someone, it's very hard for you to change your mind even when evidence is given that may contradict your view point. I think it gives you more satisfaction to keep a chew toy, a chew toy, because of the sadist in you, than it does to call a truce.

definitely. once i get started it's hard to stop.

My best guess when it comes to you calling a truce between you and someone you don't get along with, is that you either have issues with compulsion, or you see it as a defeat. If you don't see it as personal defeat, I'd say you don't like the idea of the opponent getting the satisfaction of believing they got to you.

if they call the truce i'm usually quite forgiving. i don't usually call a truce, most likely for the very reasons you listed.

You don't like being vulnerable. You'd rather be the one making someone else feel that way because it means you're the one in control. That one's not my guess. I'm stating it as a fact, and I'm willing to bet that's how it is irl. that's true of both negative and positive interactions. i'm totally ok with someone opening up and sharing with me, and prefer it that way. You may entertain the idea of someone dominating you, but I think when the opportunity presents itself for that scenario to play out, it better be a temporary role, or you start bucking like a mad bull. this is where you're wrong..if someone is capable of dominating me, i can be completely docile..for extended periods :D

I've given some thought as to why you asked me to do this analysis, and have conflicting ideas about the answer. 

i'll let you determine this one yourself. but i can assure you it's not to pick a fight.

Only the most fearful of people will remain closed and secretive. The moment you show that you are not really going to open up for this, I'm done. I won't put up with the headache if I know it's a waste of my time. Understand?

i completely agree actually.

that was referring to the chew toy part, you unstoppable force of disability

I see you as someone who quickly jumps to conclusions and once you've made your mind up about something or someone, it's very hard for you to change your mind even when evidence is given that may contradict your view point. I think it gives you more satisfaction to keep a chew toy, a chew toy, because of the sadist in you, than it does to call a truce.

definitely. once i get started it's hard to stop.

AHA! I knew you were delusional, candy ass :D

sure, sure. You replied to the entire paragraph. 

2 that come to mind pretty quickly. 1 really didn't do much talking at first, made his move and then i was just his girl. it was weird, but it made sense. first real relationship.

now number 2. ridiculously forward, and didn't even flinch at being rebuffed, even in a slightly belittling way. i loved that he wasn't sensitive. he could only dominate me sexually though.

i guess when they're not intimidated by anything about me, it puts my guard(?) down. not having to try and be in control, they simply are. not having to prove they are 'more' anything than me.