Sugar stated: source post
if you keep stumbling in here, interrupting the beautiful flow of our analysis, i will simply have to take it to PM where your grubby little autistic hands can't reach. behave, young man.
I'm going to second this. Please don't use this as your opportunity to "shred" Sugar. It will break the rhythm and I need to stay focused. Use this as an opportunity to practice restraint. Self control is very admirable.
Sugar stated: source post
2 that come to mind pretty quickly. 1 really didn't do much talking at first, made his move and then i was just his girl. it was weird, but it made sense. first real relationship.
now number 2. ridiculously forward, and didn't even flinch at being rebuffed, even in a slightly belittling way. i loved that he wasn't sensitive. he could only dominate me sexually though.
i guess when they're not intimidated by anything about me, it puts my guard(?) down. not having to try and be in control, they simply are. not having to prove they are 'more' anything than me.
What is it about you that intimidates all the rest?
Sugar stated: source post
i read them quickly, i'm usually smarter than they are. i can't pretend to be dumb or weak to appease them.
This gives me nothing much. The only picture I get in my head from this short answer is that it's easy for you to see yourself as superior to most people. This is one of the things I find frustrating about you. Your short, stiff answers. You got brains, I can tell that, but when answering questions, you come across as inarticulate, which I know is crap because I've seen you write brilliantly when showing off your writing skills.
I'm going to ask that you paint me a picture as though you were describing what you look like to a blind person from this point on.
When you're attracted to someone, are you bold and approach them in confidence, or do you wait for them to approach you? Is it your overall demeanour that intimidates, or is it something specific in your actions after you've decided they're too dumb and weak? I'd like to get a picture of what qualifies as dumb and weak to you as well.
ImNotHer stated: source post
This gives me nothing much. The only picture I get in my head from this short answer is that it's easy for you to see yourself as superior to most people. This is one of the things I find frustrating about you. Your short, stiff answers. You got brains, I can tell that, but when answering questions, you come across as inarticulate, which I know is crap because I've seen you write brilliantly when showing off your writing skills.
it is easy for me. not necessarily superior, but definitely markedly smarter. i am just honest of how sure/unsure i am about what i observe of myself. i'm well aware that it's extremely difficult to be objective when it comes to yourself, so i approach it as though i were someone i didn't know.
When you're attracted to someone, are you bold and approach them in confidence, or do you wait for them to approach you? Is it your overall demeanour that intimidates, or is it something specific in your actions after you've decided they're too dumb and weak? I'd like to get a picture of what qualifies as dumb and weak to you as well.
i usually wait, they usually come. if i make the first move, i don't generally actually like the guy. i don't decide they are too dumb/weak, i'm saying i won't pretend to be dumb or weak to make them feel like the man. things like, me never really being (or showing that i was) scared, in certain situations, probably emasculated them at times.
Are you of the opinion that most men are only comfortable with women as long as they don't prove to be more intelligent than themselves? What reasons would you have for approaching a man you're not genuinely interested in? Is it pride that makes you wait for the ones you do want, to come to you? Do you see yourself as being someone who shouldn't have to ask for what she wants? Or is it something else? A social awkwardness or anxiety?
Sugar stated: source post
if you keep stumbling in here, interrupting the beautiful flow of our analysis, i will simply have to take it to PM where your grubby little autistic hands can't reach. behave, young man.
Last time you PMed me you said "fuck off" and ran away. Sure we can take it to PM if you promise not to cop out
ImNotHer stated: source post
Sugar stated: source post
if you keep stumbling in here, interrupting the beautiful flow of our analysis, i will simply have to take it to PM where your grubby little autistic hands can't reach. behave, young man.
I'm going to second this. Please don't use this as your opportunity to "shred" Sugar. It will break the rhythm and I need to stay focused. Use this as an opportunity to practice restraint. Self control is very admirable.
Self control is admirable only if it helps. Too much of it could lead to cowardice. Your post implies sugar couldn't fend me off without you. and you're right. :D