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"Despite this, you still would prefer it to be the case."

I didn't get to choose what I was diagnosed with. That's not how it works.

"It's safe to venture that you have a preoccupation with not being seen as a victim"

lol, Right... because admitting I was abused as a child is so helpful in that way, isn't it...

If I was that worried about being seen as a victim I could have easily lied and claimed I was never abused as a child and nobody would've known the difference, but I didn't do that. I was honest instead.

"So much of you is about needing to be seen as strong"

I've admitted to my weaknesses in the past. After all, we all have them. Even psychopaths have them. They're no exception.

The strongest people are the ones who have no personality disorders. A healthy mind is a strong mind.

Now, about your PTSD from that rape you experienced, what's it like for you?

That's what the denial is for!!! And shit does happen and you move on and become an SJW , a renegade against the machine! A raving idiot via keyboard!

You are ruining her fun! eye roll

At least she is not doing the wanker feed for validation and hating on men. You should see the cry babies at shrink4men, those are supposedly "nons"  LMAO

That is funny. And my left testicles says you ain't no doktor. And my right is blessed with the extra special sauce of the Jehovah Witnesses for detecting bullshit, and who better than an excommunicated JW would know about about bullshit?

Shit happened, I got over it and moved on.

Having ASPD is also a sign of not having gotten over something. ASPD is an obvious sign that trauma has not been overcome, as a personality disorder permeates deeper to the core of the individual's character than PTSD. It is a very serious indication of a need for one to attend to the impact of one's trauma.

"I didn't form my identity around it at all and there is nothing that even remotely indicates I did."
Wooooow.

"You haven't really faced it though. You're just in denial."
I fully recognize that things have happened to me and that it's changed me. Compared to how I was closer to the time of the damage however it's obvious that I'm back to functioning. I don't deny that it happened, I'm able to talk about it, and my personality is as it was before the event. In that sense I'd say that I've faced it.

You however were hit with abuse at a younger age, during your formative years. Your potential for damage is even greater than my own, requiring much stronger coping mechanisms.

"Look at the way you've been projecting it onto me."
It's closer to knowing what to look for through a sense of familiarity in this case.

To be honest, it's gone on this long from how strongly you're responding to it and from how much at points you've tried to make it end. Even this falls into that pattern through figuring that you could make it stop by taking control of the spotlight.

"You have PTSD. I don't. I know you don't want to accept that because you don't want to be seen as the only one who couldn't get over being victimized"
If that's really what I was after, there's plenty of others I could go to for that sort of validation. It'd make no sense to pick a stubborn target in that narrative's case.

This is about how you're responding to this discussion.

"My past doesn't bother me. Shit happened, I got over it and moved on."
It's how you're displaying as said "moved on" that has our attention, especially in the light of this backlash of yours.

Stage One:

Stage Two:

Stage Three:

"IMO. Everything about a online chat forum is based off of speculation ... only each user knows what is fact and what is fiction."

That's true. But apparently, that just does not sink in with some people and instead they just go on and on and fucking on, relentlessly, refusing to accept that they're wrong. 

"You can make logical assumptions. But at the end of the day it is still speculation."

Yes, but people here don't make logical assumptions. They make assumptions based on what they'd prefer to believe.

You simply do not appear on your doctor's doorstep as an adult, and he gives you the diagnosis of AsPD. It does not happen. You have no reason to even end up there. You either end up in jail and they don't give a damn if you're sane or not unless it's a really serious crime, had it been you had been locked up now, either in prison or a mental hospital. Or you actually go to a doctor for other things. AsPD people are very often comorbid, since the diagnosis stretches far outside psychopathy. It's not unusual for people with AsPD to end up in health care because of self destructive behavior, anxiety and drug abuse. They are usually diagnosed with those different things, and a diagnosis with AsPD might not even happen.

It's different if you grew into the diagnosis going all the way from ODD, through CD to AsPD. But no one cared about ODD and CD when Reaper was young, it's simply too long ago for her to have taken that path.

Because of that, what she says is pure BS. I would guess she has a diagnosis of depression or similar.

"that's funny cos she was diagnosed with depression and PTSD"

 to "never having been diagnosed".