"I wasn't trying to prove anything. Words alone don't prove jack shit."
Well, this thread has almost completely turned about you and your dx in case you haven't noticed. It looks very much to me like you're trying to prove something. If you wouldn't care about opinions, why even getting in an argumentation about an useless label and waste time and effort, ffs. I honestly don't care whether you or anyone else here has ASpD, PTSD, Ebola or whatever in case you really wanna know. I mean, why should I give a fuck.
"You simply do not appear on your doctor's doorstep as an adult"
I get the point. But why trying to prove something about a stranger? Why wasting effort? Even if you prove to be right, it won't make a change in the end anyway. This usually happens when ds shows up so it has to be a personal reason. Just tell her in the face that you dislike her.