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"I've had about 9 different jobs all up"

And you couldn't hold one of them.

"A whore is a prostitute. I was not a prostitute."

I'd be more impressed if you at least made money off of it, but then again you were never one to hold any ambition. Needing that much sex just shows poor self control over emotional urges. That's why I look down upon it.

"You keep basing my appearance off a photo of me that's 10 years old, instead of the more current one of me where I'm wearing a black hood. I don't even look fat in that."

Yea, because you covered up your neck and tilted your head at a downward angle. You went through so much effort to conceal your body that it confirms suspicions about your appearance. All these pictures of your face and no body, you'd think it would start the other way around if you were worried about privacy issues.

"There's been a few. There are a few people here that have known me since the 4Degrees forum and that's going back quite a few years."

It's more than just a few, it's the majority of users here that think that way. I wonder why 

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by Turncoat

"I never claimed that at all. I said they've been harassing me for years."
Mock, harass, same deal really in this case.

No, it's not. By law it is referred to as harassment and that is exactly what it is:

"to annoy or bother (someone) in a constant or repeated way"

"to make repeated attacks against (an enemy)"

 

"Anyone who does that has some serious issues."
And how many people would you say fit into that niche?

There's been a few. There are a few people here that have known me since the 4Degrees forum and that's going back quite a few years.

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"I never claimed that at all. I said they've been harassing me for years."
Mock, harass, same deal really in this case.

"Anyone who does that has some serious issues."
And how many people would you say fit into that niche?

"It wouldn't have mattered who said it to him. Calling him weak and pathetic is clearly offensive to him."
The "who" does matter, as who they are adds inflection to the message itself. He'd likely assume my intent is different from yours, plus you and I possess different conversational styles.

"You think he wouldn't have found reason to to get back at you? Don't kid yourself."
No really, I've been on his case more than once in the past. It progressed rather civilly, and there were no threats made. If he's secretly still plotting against me because of that, this far after it, I've yet to see anything of that nature reveal itself.

"Last job I had was about 18 years ago."
So your working stopped once your kid came along? What sort of job was it?

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How big of a deal do you think it is?

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"No, it's not. By law it is referred to as harassment and that is exactly what it is:"
So you're using law instead of just language then? Are you sure you don't just want to use a stronger sounding word to make it out to be more than it is?

"There's been a few. There are a few people here that have known me since the 4Degrees forum and that's going back quite a few years."
Well, at least "few" gets around the room for claims of conspiracy.

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I remember something about you not calling the police or something.  I do have a question for you though.  How did the fight end?  Did you run from the house?  How did you get him out of the house?

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I don't think I bargained with him as that would suggest there was some form of negotiation.

I manipulated him - "control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly or unscrupulously" - by trying to control and influence his behavior with information I knew he wanted to hear, that I didn't entirely agree with.

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Is it fair to say you bargained with him so you would no longer need to fight?

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What did you tell him?

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I told him that I didn't cheat on him (which was true, because I hadn't, even though I'd been accused of it by a lying bitch). I told him that if I wanted to fuck other guys, I wouldn't have bothered staying with him.

I told him that I loved him (I didn't love him, but I knew he wanted to hear that I did).

I told him that I knew how much he wanted us to be a family and how much his daughter needed him in her life.

I told him a bunch of other crap too. I can't remember everything now. Just things that I knew would calm him down and convince him that I was faithful to him.

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