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by Daddy

I never claimed to control love, though I do believe I understand the catalysts required to start the chain reaction leading to it. Specifically to the infatuation stage (The deeply connected intrinsically intertwined in with another person that happens during the initial stages and even the heightened moments around the whole makeup-reconnect phase).

I don't believe it's hard to make someone fall in love, at least THAT passionate kind of love. But there is no controlling it once it's started. It has a life all its own that ebbs and flows beyond your control in many degrees, such true passion supersedes the individual and becomes more about the bond between two, trying to control that leaves it stale, fake, empty, and ultimately unfulfilled.

I also agree to the concept of monogamy being a staple for stability in family units. But I still don't know if I believe our current methods of establishing that stability are healthy and productive. I imagine in the future polygamy will actually begin to become mainstream or at least "swinging" will. Allowing people to have the best of both worlds. The excitement and fun of new, with the stability of a Family and obviously I know that sentiment is going to cause friction with many, and it me be to early to invision that time now. But I do believe it's coming.

With a 50% divorce rate across the board. Declining marriage statistics in general... and a continually more and more progressive, liberal group taking the future. It only makes sense to me.

As to the concept of sharing, I've done it, and as scary as the thought is... if you put it in context it's not so bad.

Most of the women you've been with have most likely had sex before you, so what's the difference?

Today the concept of serial monogamy is the norm... speed 2-6 months with one person, then it ends and you move on to the new toy. You're sharing your toys already... you just convince yourself that person is yours forever.

You may be right about the transition to polygamy, but still... I don't think people will learn to not feel jealous/upset about it anytime soon. Since we're talking animal instincts, it's kinda ingrained into us as animal to compete and try to win over partners, and well, keep them to ourselves. I'm too possessive to imagine sharing someone I'm seriously involved with with someone else, and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. I mean, if I see my gf holding hands with another dude, talking/laughing/kissing not to mention some other stuff, it doesn't help too much to rationally tell myself, hey, other people have fucked her too, no biggie. Share your toys. I'd probably get there and chase that guy away in an unpleasant way, it's what seems natural to me. It's not because society told me monogamy is good, it's something much deeper that gets stirred. So I'm not sure that your idea of polygamy is that natural either...

Truth is it's not that easy for most people to keep physical needs and emotional needs completely separate. And from what I've heard and seen it's easier for us men to do that. I read somewhere that brain chemicals get secreted during sex that brings people closer together emotionally, it's a trick of nature, so if you're willing to share someone physically you must also be willing to share his/her affection. And if you care about someone the way you very eloquently described you don't want to risk losing them altogether, or get your time with them shortened in favor of other people and all that... At least I wouldn't.

shit was hot dawg, makes me wanna hit the bar and see what i can pull

I'm too possessive to imagine sharing someone I'm seriously involved
with with someone else, and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. I
mean, if I see my gf holding hands with another dude,
talking/laughing/kissing not to mention some other stuff, it doesn't
help too much to rationally tell myself, hey, other people have fucked
her too, no biggie. Share your toys. I'd probably get there and chase
that guy away in an unpleasant way, it's what seems natural to me. It's
not because society told me monogamy is good, it's something much deeper
that gets stirred. So I'm not sure that your idea of polygamy is that natural either...

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I'd have a serious problem with that. Agree with Edvard on this one.

Nice kissing video.

Lol... My post got you out of your lethargic state :p Don't be jealous dear Inky... I'm still an E/I shipper. I'd love to see you fight with Daddy for what rightfully belongs to you ;)

Salt and Peppa

Opposites attract! I also picture Inky as frail and effeminate lol. Perfect is the right word for them :3

Oh, and to justify my statement about haughtiness... Lol Daddy is a huge narc, but he's been acting less like one towards Ed lately... This shift in attitude didn't go unnoticed, lol... Daddy's trying to win Ed over, romantically or not... He really is. Just look at his lenghty, thought out and non-dismissive replies to Ed! And Ed's doing his best to impress Daddy too. They're cute ;)

 I don't really know what love is, but I certainly know what sex is.

This still falls in line with my original hypothesis. The concept that you're unable to form any meaningful connections would be just as similar as someone who's never had them from lack of experience.

I imagine sex for you has little meaning  for you beyond what masturbation would have for most other people.

The moral of the story is, you are both inexperienced in emotional bonding with others. One because of a lack of experience and the other from an inability to build meaningful relationships.

Keep playing that meaningless broken record that has no basis in reality, if it comforts your poor little ego to do so.

Oh come now, no need to be jealous, Eddy's all yours buddy. I can appreciate a mind that's willing to think. But he's still lacking the proper holes needed for him to be of any use for me.

As I said, what I'm proposing is still much too early to be accepted by the general population. But there are certainly plenty of people who are more than willing to take part in such activities already. I'm not saying this will ever be something enjoyed by all, but much like homosexuality. It will become more accepted in society as time goes by.

And while I've done the whole living with two women and being in a relationship with them at the same time... I wouldn't advise it for most... It's a job trying to keep the emotions of one women stable... it's insanely draining to try and maintain that with two living with you... all while keeping them both from teatering into jealousy, at that point it almost becomes more like a family in itself, wher  you are the father and they are vying for your affection... and I doubt I'd ever want to do it again. But there is something to be said about having other friendships/sexual relationships outside of the established primary relationship/marriage. I think that's what will become more prevelent in the next hundred years or so.

And I would argue that the concept of monogomy isn't any different between men and women. I think that your social programming has simply trained you that you need to be chaste or be labeled a whore and become devalued. But I think if you were ever exposed to the possibilities of being able to have multiple lovers and loved and accepted just the same while doing it, then I believe you'd find it quite enjoyable. There really is something quite amazing about having four hands on your at once during a session of sensuous love making (IF and that's a big if, you are capable of handling the jealousies that could arise)

This is a concept that is hard for many to swallow, but can be quite beautiful if done properly.