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I never claimed to control love, though I do believe I understand the catalysts required to start the chain reaction leading to it. Specifically to the infatuation stage (The deeply connected intrinsically intertwined in with another person that happens during the initial stages and even the heightened moments around the whole makeup-reconnect phase).

I don't believe it's hard to make someone fall in love, at least THAT passionate kind of love. But there is no controlling it once it's started. It has a life all its own that ebbs and flows beyond your control in many degrees, such true passion supersedes the individual and becomes more about the bond between two, trying to control that leaves it stale, fake, empty, and ultimately unfulfilled.

I also agree to the concept of monogamy being a staple for stability in family units. But I still don't know if I believe our current methods of establishing that stability are healthy and productive. I imagine in the future polygamy will actually begin to become mainstream or at least "swinging" will. Allowing people to have the best of both worlds. The excitement and fun of new, with the stability of a Family and obviously I know that sentiment is going to cause friction with many, and it me be to early to invision that time now. But I do believe it's coming.

With a 50% divorce rate across the board. Declining marriage statistics in general... and a continually more and more progressive, liberal group taking the future. It only makes sense to me.

As to the concept of sharing, I've done it, and as scary as the thought is... if you put it in context it's not so bad.

Most of the women you've been with have most likely had sex before you, so what's the difference?

Today the concept of serial monogamy is the norm... speed 2-6 months with one person, then it ends and you move on to the new toy. You're sharing your toys already... you just convince yourself that person is yours forever.

 

 

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Thank you for your honesty.

From this post I gather you've only had sex (penetration with a penis until reaching orgasm) one time?

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Well my hypothesis was that people who've had many partners would take polygamous view on relationships, and the people who haven't really had much experience with multiple intimate partners would take the conservative mainstream view.

The concept being that you have an idealized illusion of what love and sex are meant to be, without much real practical knowledge on the topic. Something I imagine is true about Thrillkill also.

Where as I would assume that the others who posted supporting the concept innate promiscuity were much more open and... experienced.

You're obviously still very young mentally... You behave like someone who's just now discovering their sexuality. Mid teens perhaps.

But in any case. You make rash assumptions about the video without even watching it. Another sign of youthful ignorance. Some of those kiss's were quite romantic. That's what the primise of this whole post was.

The concept that attraction and connection can happen spontaneously and is not simply the realm of fairytale princess's in a perfect world of lolly pops and rainbows, but infact a very real propensity toward promiscuity in human nature

 

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Do you actually believe this bullshit? Who are you trying to convince... Me? or Yourself?

Look back at my post. I wasn't attacking anything. You simply took it that way, because you'd rather believe what's comfortable than face reality. Stay in your gilded cage little bird... It's safer there.

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Does the shit you say even make sense to you?

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by Daddy

The concept being that you have an idealized illusion of what love and sex are meant to be, without much real practical knowledge on the topic. Something I imagine is true about Thrillkill also.

 I don't really know what love is, but I certainly know what sex is.

I've been in 9 monogamous relationships, 3 sexual relationships and I've had about 20 or so different sexual partners in total. How much more practical experience could I possibly need? lol

(Knowledge comes from experience)

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Uh.. I'm both genuinely disgusted and slightly jealous.

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by Daddy

I never claimed to control love, though I do believe I understand the catalysts required to start the chain reaction leading to it. Specifically to the infatuation stage (The deeply connected intrinsically intertwined in with another person that happens during the initial stages and even the heightened moments around the whole makeup-reconnect phase).

I don't believe it's hard to make someone fall in love, at least THAT passionate kind of love. But there is no controlling it once it's started. It has a life all its own that ebbs and flows beyond your control in many degrees, such true passion supersedes the individual and becomes more about the bond between two, trying to control that leaves it stale, fake, empty, and ultimately unfulfilled.

 Awww... What a romantic post! Daddy's obviously trying to seduce Ed... consciously or subconsciously. You two have great chemistry together :) It's obvious you both respect and admire each other... I like the idea of Daddy being intrigued and wanting to 'conquer' a stubborn, haughty Ed... Analizing him and getting to know him better than Ed knows himself :) And Ed slowly being seduced by Daddy's silver tongue and mindgames... :)

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I admire your tenacity. The show must go on, right?

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As you say, particularly over the last 50 years or so, serial monogamy has become the norm. I couldn't honestly imagine being with the same person for my entire life, and I think if most people under the age of 30 were to be honest with themselves I think they would admit they couldn't either.

But there is a big difference between serial monogamy and polygamy. It requires a huge shift in thinking, and a change in lifestyle that most people at this moment couldn't comprehend. Just the practical logistics of arranging your life around multiple partners could be inconvenient.

I actually don't find monogamy such a difficult concept, but I think this is really a difference between men and women.

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