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Okay, tell us what your skills are. What are you good at? What do you have an interest in? What is your wildest dream?

Once we know what you have passion for, we can better decide what will make you most happy dedicating your life's ambitions too :)

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I'm in transition but at the same time, trying to multitask. The picture I have up now is a temp until I find something that satisfies.

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You assume way too much.

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You wish.

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For any man, work is the source of his power. Without it comes that kind of misery. Women want a working man too. Finish up with your school if you must, work part time, stay busy.

In the event you cannot find any work, and I know it sounds lame, but do some volenteering work. You will meet a lot of people that way and it actually sets you up with new oppertunities, cause oppertunity comes from others.

Just work. If you're concerned with how you relate to females, check out the Don Juan Forums. It's a male dominated forum with a bunch of hot shots who share their secrets and experiences with dating the opposite sex. The information there is good in an entertaining way.

Look for what to avoid, and work, then you'll be more powerful, be able to afford and actually do things. Not all women are gold diggers, but instinctively they like a man who can provide, and when you search that emptiness inside you, you'll see how much it means to be able to provide. Not that you have to provide anything to anyone, but the ability is what you must aquire.

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Let's see..

Currently waiting till September to start going to school. I study electro-engineering which I have no interest in, so I'm basicaly just passing by to graduate and get out. 

I guess I'm okay at math, but other than that I can't think of anything relevant to be superficient at or to be interested at. There's very very few things to keep me bussy, and once I'm done with it I basicaly need to find something new. I currently don't have any wild dreams, in fact, I don't think I ever had a 'plan' what to be or who to be once I graduate. The only dream right now would be to find someone interesting to spend time with, have fun, do stuff, I guess. Find someone either same broken or the opposite to keep me bussy (as long as I don't get bored though).

In a theory, I do like myself, but I don't get motivated by it. In the end, I'm self-destructive. So I guess the motivation would be to find the other self or completely different self that I once sought to be. And there is also the risk and fear of losing that person, which has made me the way I am in first place.

Until that happens (if ever), black hole continues.

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I don't have problems to maintain a good relationship with the opposite sex, in fact I'd say I'm good at it if I want to. But I do get bored, see nothing interesting on them later on and drop it though, or just nothing comes out of it and I dont see why to pursue any longer, because there is nothing for me to gain, I'm kinda asexual too so looking for sexual partners is not the solution for me. If I do meet the one, it all goes to shit somehow though. I can't really relate well with someone I care about for some reason.

Volunteering work in spare time may sound lame, but why not give it a shot, always good to keep in touch with the world and nevertheless, what's the difference between doing something new for free and sitting home doing nothing.

 

Already feeling like doing some extra work over summer to keep in touch and luckily find something new to stick to.

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i hate to sound like a broken record in this thread, but i gotta agree with these guys that your problems sound lke depression. and as far as boredom goes with what youre saying as far as work and things to do, i would consider joining the military. they would certainly keep you busy. dont make any hasty decisions though man. and i would strongly advise professional help for your depression, if you can find a way for that to happen.

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i hate to sound like a broken record in this thread, but i gotta agree with these guys that your problems sound lke depression. and as far as boredom goes with what youre saying as far as work and things to do, i would consider joining the military. they would certainly keep you busy. dont make any hasty decisions though man. and i would strongly advise professional help for your depression, if you can find a way for that to happen.

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Two identical posts? Damn right you sound like a broken record...

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