For any man, work is the source of his power. Without it comes that kind of misery. Women want a working man too. Finish up with your school if you must, work part time, stay busy.
In the event you cannot find any work, and I know it sounds lame, but do some volenteering work. You will meet a lot of people that way and it actually sets you up with new oppertunities, cause oppertunity comes from others.
Just work. If you're concerned with how you relate to females, check out the Don Juan Forums. It's a male dominated forum with a bunch of hot shots who share their secrets and experiences with dating the opposite sex. The information there is good in an entertaining way.
Look for what to avoid, and work, then you'll be more powerful, be able to afford and actually do things. Not all women are gold diggers, but instinctively they like a man who can provide, and when you search that emptiness inside you, you'll see how much it means to be able to provide. Not that you have to provide anything to anyone, but the ability is what you must aquire.