Oh, I've heard this all before
"they're not REAL Christians, they're doing it all wrong, this is what the Bible really says! "
Every Christian who's ever tried to convert me back had sounded just like you, a broken record spewing the same unrealistic utopian fantasy crap.
I thought I already conveyed I don't believe in Jesus. I'm not a fan of horror cinema or literature.
My bible, in the sense that you Christians refer to the book, is the natural world. In the natural world you struggle to live and that strife leads to fulfilling success or finality and relief in failure and death. It just is. There's no good or bad or love or judgement. It just is. To succeed, you need an upper hand, and no one's going to just drop an advantage into your lap.
Unquestioning positivity is a lazy and complacent individuals cop - out and the preferred poison of many self righteous religious types.
You need to humble up cuz you're sounding mighty self - righteous.