But you should really quit projecting your fat and self-esteem issues onto others and work on those. Is there no gym or psychologist where you live?
Oh, no, you DIDN'T!
Thrill, I think this guy's as retarded as you do (or perhaps he's just high. I don't know) but please, tell me that your fat forty-one-year-old self did not just tell him to get some exercise? And to stop projecting? Holy freaking gawd, Thrill, you do nothing BUT project your insecurities onto other people here. You're so afraid and fearful that I can smell you if I stick my head out the window (take a shower, would you?).
Listen up, Thrill, because you've asked us before why people keep telling you that you're deluded: you're in no position to be giving advice to anyone else. I mean, COME ON: we can hardly call your life a success story, now, can we? We can't even place you as the underdog in this ongoing saga of up stream rowing that you call a life, because the underdog is always free of delusions, is likeable and relatable. You fit none of these criteria.
The OP might be an imbecile, but he's not wrong about your obesity or your self-esteem issues.