You provide very enlightening insight. I appreciate that. Basically its fun or alleviates boredom? i guess I was thinking like the two people meant something to you, like they mattered in some way. From your point view, it was just something to do. That helps me understand a lot.
Random question, what do you think of my avatar? Does it make me seem ridiculous and not to be taken seriously? Goofy? That's kind of my intent. Or does it seem kinda creepy in a bad way?