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Use them, loot them. And leave them broken by Fucking their best friend. The best breakup of when you fuck her in the ass then dump her seconds afterwards. Better effect off she hates anal. 

 Oh Clueless. You already know what I would say. Just be careful. You're worth more than to be someones target of destruction. 

 Ana - I know.  It's so hard to escape.  So much guilt. . . .

Cain - thanks for the insight.  you're one cold MFer

Maybe Jay/Daddy will weigh in on this. He is much more into the psychological aspects than some others are. 

I believe it's all karma. Some people are aware they are acting out karma when they choose and abuse victims. Some people aren't. 

If you take responsibility for assessing and addressing your own karma, then you won't get caught up in someone else's. You will be able to see it coming, and take steps to direct it in other ways. 

If you really want to stop this, you can ask to talk it all out. Open and honestly, even accepting to work with this person "no matter what it takes." If this person cannot help the karma they have with you, they will have no choice but to work it out anyway. So you can choose how openly you want to address what's going on.

If you are just another random hit, this person will go look for an easier target.

So this is why you need to know what your half of this puzzle is, take care of your side of the equation, and don't let other people get in and try to control your side.

Does this make sense?

Take care of your issues with the support and company of people who WON'T take advantage of your issues and try to manipulate/use them against you. Let this person handle their own issues, focus on your own. If they are only interested in playing games, they won't hang around someone like you who is committed to resolving problems. When you make this commitment to change yourself and life for the better, you attract good people who are better for you.

hey, but if you're not the perpetrator, if you are on the receiving end of the con why don't you just sabotage it?  

Have you had a relationship with a sociopath? "Why don't you just sabatoge it" sounds like what someone with no experience in this would say. 

 When it's about romance, it's desire for the chase, the intensity of the thrill, the new exciting depth of connection, it sets of parts of the reward center of the brain... it is intoxicating for both parties... I doubt it would be done for the sheer want of causing harm, I'm sure the person very much doesn't even realize what they're doing.

Someone would need to be especially devious and sadistic to allow themselves to grow attached to someone just to hurt them... is there a reason this person would have a vendetta against you?

 Romantic chase... Depth of connection...

It amuses me how you still call yourself a sociopath. Next minute you'll be telling us how much you love certain people too.

Oh wait, you've done that already. lol