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 Dear Eyes: You seem to pigeonhole what "love" is based on what "other people expect"

To love is to care for someone's soul. Clearly you care for your mom's happiness, for yours and your relationship.

So you are expressing love by just asking and trying to resolve this. That is love!

 If his ass is like me, he won't get scared anyway.  Now help eyes and keep your posts short!

 Very good. Yes, one step in healing is to vent and express the emotions instead of denying them.

Let's see which step is that? And we have 11 to go or what?

 Yes, you see you HAVE been a good influence on me. Good kitty!

Too bad I didn't help you, only made your habits worse. oh well.

 I get that dude...I do. But I get frustrated sometimes. Maybe it's a jealousy issue but I see people able to trust and love eachother and I dunno but it looks like it feels good lol...I've taken everything from a girl and not even felt bad. Forced her to feel guilty...il stop there as you all prob know the rest..It's not guilt I feel. It's the knowledge that if I wasn't an s. I'd prob be really fucking happy. That's what bothers me!

by Cipher

 Why wouldn't you deserve it. Look at the big picture. We are specs of dust on a little blue marble surrounded by billions and billions of other kinds of marbles. You have no purpose in life but to enjoy it, so please do.

Accept who you are. I recognize myself in some of the things you just said, but I've embraced my "evil" side. So you're fucked up? Might just as well have some fun with it, right?

 Do you ever notice you hijack threads and make them about you.  It is like you search for someone to help you.  I am thinking of posting a thread just to help you Emily.  Would you like that dear?

Not to worry if that happens. You know what you need to say and what isn't important.

You'll fit right in with this "puppet clowns" who only do group therapy by lying and kidding back and forth.

It still works.

 says he who leaps on to threads and poops.

 But sure, I do agree if you have issues with me that's a separate thread.

 Happy to move it off here. I'll delete my msgs if you delete yours. Eyes already got what he needed.

 He is only interested in post counts anyway.  You are so naive.

 Dear Eyes: All couples have to work on communication and learning each other's boundaries.

You may have to work harder in some ways, but both partners in the relationship have to stretch to work together.

Be honest and your friends and partners will work with you. 

I have sociopathic friends and we just work harder to resolve conflicts when those arise. We talk it out.

You are highly aware, so you can communicate these things.

I think you are still afraid of being judged and rejected. Give that time. With more practice you won't worry so much.

People naturally want to love and understand you. Don't feel bad if they have to work at it. We all do! it's never easy.