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 yes you do. my stay in the bathroom was until i could move again..i think i was worked up mostly because there were drugs in my system that i wasn't aware of, but after a couple hours i was good. when i found out what she had done, the last thing on my mind was 'manipulating her into feeling guilt'. pathetic.

her intention was to see you get hurt, and by destroying your relationship, manipulating your daughters father into being violent with you solely because of lies that she had told him, and leaving you a single parent while she still had her own boyfriend (she had just been playing with yours temporarily) and then your mother grudgingly taking you back and remaining convinced it must have been your fault - she totally failed. lol

what's more pathetic about it is that this is most likely the embellished version.

"when i found out what she had done, the last thing on my mind was 'manipulating her into feeling guilt'."

Your situation was different from mine. I used manipulation as a survival tool (so that he wouldn't attack me again). You didn't need to because the girl who spiked your drink wasn't attacking you and trying to kill you. There's a big difference between your situation and mine.

As for the the rest of your post... You think what you want. I'm just glad I'm alive to tell the story.

If you want to continue to play this 'bitch' game, go ahead if it makes you feel better. Clearly you're still pissed at me for telling you that you may have deserved what you got. You can't expect everyone to be sympathetic towards you, sugargirl. So, how about you put your big girl pants on and start accepting that fact.

to me, a survival tool would be grabbing a knife. what exactly did you say to 'manipulate' him? 'please don't hurt me/i love you'?

i'm not playing a 'bitch' game, i'm simply taking on your logic. you said i may have deserved to get raped, and i was open to that possibility. when i commented that perhaps you deserved your abusive childhood, you freaked out at even the thought that you were anything but an innocent victim and the same is true with regards your 'near death experience' (lol) 

by Thrill Kill

 

If you want to continue to play this 'bitch' game, go ahead if it makes you feel better. 

Freaked out? lol, You certainly like to exaggerate. I have been nothing but calm with you.

I think I get what you are saying. I think the insult to real rape victims can be avoided by expressing these fantasies in other terms. One friend explained it in terms of "sexually aggressive" and also the dominant/submissive fantasies.

I can't watch rape scenes in movies without freaking out. I have friends who can't watch any type of movies or plays dramatizing murder as "entertainment" because they are still in recovery from having a loved one murdered in real life.

Maybe none of us would joke or talk about killing or harming people if we really thought from the viewpoint of people grieving the loss of loved ones to violence.

by emilynghiem

Maybe none of us would joke or talk about killing or harming people if we really thought from the viewpoint of people grieving the loss of loved ones to violence.

I used to post on the Serial Killer Central forum (before I got banned from there) and this one guy kept whining about serial killers. Apparently, one of his relatives had been murdered by Richard Ramirez around 30 odd years ago or some shit and still he was grieving.

Admittedly, I taunted the guy because he was annoying. Why would anyone want to think from his viewpoint? He should have been over it by now. Over 30 years is a long fucking time to grieve. Whining about it isn't going to bring his dead relative back.

 ??? RE: "deserved" to be raped?

Dear TK and SG: Wherever this was said, I'm guessing this was a poor choice of words? Just because there were "reasons" someone was vulnerable to attack is NOT the same as "deserving" it?

EX: A person doesn't "deserve" to die for riding in the car with a drunk driver. Clearly doing so "caused" that person to die, but they still didn't "deserve it" for making a mistake to get into the car.

I would distinguish the decisions/actions of the separate people from each other so it is more clear you aren't blaming the actions of one on the other.

As for if TK is holding back or being open, it seems she is perfectly open about talking about "hating responsibility". So in a way she "claims and owns" her responsibility for where she is, what she feels or doesn't, and how she responds. She appears at peace with being in this situation, problems at all. That's how I read it.

We teach our kids about the dangers that exist in the world for a reason, because we don't want them to make stupid choices that could land them in trouble. A young adult, who should have known better, doesn't deserve anyone's sympathy when they make a stupid choice and something happens to them as a result of it.

Every time we take risks, we know there are possible consequences. If someone takes a foolish risk, then they deserve whatever happens to them for being stupid.

 "A young adult, who should have known better, doesn't deserve anyone's sympathy when they make a stupid choice and something happens to them as a result of it."

i'm not sure if you are trying to describe my situation but this fits yours perfectly. what were the consequences of my actions? a ruined night out. yours? a mistake that will stay with you the rest of your life (your daughter) and grow up to be a worthless parasite, just like her mother, and her mother's mother. both of you lack a suitable father figure to grow up with. you despise your daughter because she is more attractive and desirable than you (exhibit S: slimey's interest in your daughter taking a piss) and i think you know deep down you're repulsive don't you?