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I don't generally judge people as being witches or sorceresses. To me, everyone is an object that either has value (based on potential use) or no value.

Some see you the same way.

In the feminine manner they're called witches and sorceresses.

Be careful how you thread about with them.

Their tongue tends to be as sharp as their bite.

Witches don't really knowhow to use their talent in a creative manner, aside of their own needs.

Sorceresess don't really know how to put their needs aside in order to use their talent in a creative manner.

Either way, their arrogance and stubbornness will never be as "direct power" driven as that of a the male counterparts.

Men suffer from similar curses and gifts, but it is a different school of manipulation.

by kdm633

 Ya, I am a woman. Which is why it's more scary/threatening than just "annoying" because I don't necessarily have the physical strength to overpower a guy, espcially if he's taller than me. So when a guy does go a crazy, I think the possibility is there for a guy to harass me or become violent. Or if I'm flirting with him, he might see that as an invitation to grope me or something. Are you saying that if I make a guy like me, but I'm a "bitch", that guys WON'T do that?

 Bitch persona is too simplistic. You need to adopt an air of indifference and dominance whenever talking to men. Don't give them time to "dream of what could be" Show them how it is. Wear that dislike of touchy feely shit on your sleeve. 

by kdm633

 No! I don't! I don't even interact with them long. My classmate just happened to be friends wtih this guy. I met another crazy guy at college at "speed dating". There was another guy who hit on me in the bookstore and seemed OK until I gave him my phone number and he texted me at every point of the day asking me what I was doing and how I was. I don't actively seek these people out or anything. And it's not like I think we have anything in common.

 You are acting way too passive for the kind of looks and feelings you have. That's your problem. Learn how to fucking assert yourself. 

 I have a feeling she never really attempted to defend whatever values she believes in.

And I'm not talking about a take up a placard and protest your BS kind of BS.

Where the fuck is that resolve to fight over what you don't believe is right for the right reason?

 Yes. Not how I'd put it, but that essential it. Stand up. Be who you are. Take what is yours and tell the others to get the fuck out of your way. She is too timid.

Passion rules reason, but only when you believee you passions rule your reason in the right way, you do deserve victory.

A hard lesson to come by.

by FatherLucifer

 

by kdm633

 No! I don't! I don't even interact with them long. My classmate just happened to be friends wtih this guy. I met another crazy guy at college at "speed dating". There was another guy who hit on me in the bookstore and seemed OK until I gave him my phone number and he texted me at every point of the day asking me what I was doing and how I was. I don't actively seek these people out or anything. And it's not like I think we have anything in common.

 You are acting way too passive for the kind of looks and feelings you have. That's your problem. Learn how to fucking assert yourself. 

Hey, you guys are right. Seriously... I appreciate the insight.

Only thing is, it seems weird to assert myself when a random guy I meet (who seems to be cute/normal) asks for my number but I don't know anything about him. I mean, I give off an, "Eh, whatever" (passive) vibe because that's what I'm feeling when I don't know about someone yet.

People tend to think I'm some kind of playing up the aloof/hard-to-get thing, when they first start flirting with me- trying to give me hints that they are attracted to me. The real truth is, that I'm completely retarded when it comes to picking up on people being attracted to me, and sometimes, even when they are being blunt about it, I'll just think they're playing around.

You pretty much have to say, "Bitch, I'm trying to tell you I want to fuck you." For me to get a clue that what's going on is real. So if someone is being passive with me... they won't get anywhere, and not because I'm intensionally blowing them off for not being assertive. More than not, it just won't register on my radar.

Does any of what I just said make sense?

Here's another question. So, I am pretty passive in general, so if you do like someone, how do you DECIDE when to flirt with them? I feel like it takes me ten thousand years to decide if someone is worth flirting with (and they've already made up their mind after 2 seconds), and it's not like I flirt with someone when I first meet them because I'm still undecided.

Yeah, maybe some clingy girls would call this "hard to get", but I'm so on the other end of the spectrum that guys will think that there's NO chance because I give off the vibe that I hate them. (I know this for a few reasons ... I've actually texted guys a couple weeks after a date, not because I was torn up about it, but because I was actually curious why they didn't call, and also friends have told me that I come off this way, and they have relayed guys' accounts of this to me.)

Maybe the point is to be assertive and not "try" to flirt at all? I feel like that would just attract losers who don't want someone who likes them haha.