Did you edit this post? I don't remember it at all.
Hm. Your approach is good, and the way you describe the escalating interaction is hot. But you should have asked her to go for a walk the minute you perceived she was receptive to your advances, away from all the noise, and potential for disturbance.
Guys will be guys, and they won't give a crap about your aspirations any more than you likely would about theirs. I would have ditched my friends and followed you if I was interested, but not everyone is outgoing. She was probably hoping you'd drop them.
I don't blame you for wanting to go out alone. People are a bother, most of the time.
I don't know about that. Somehow, I doubt a guy like aspienigga would have the charm to finesse his way up a woman's skirt, just by whispering into her ear.
But Damaged is lucky he got away with it. When I am clubbing, I literally hit anyone who violates my personal space. I am not kidding; they get a single warning. Unless I am a dragon, I get harassed like crazy. :P
One should escalate whenever possible. If it was a regular pick up I would've gone for a venue change. I was going more for a speed seduction so I thought I'd go just short of fingering her in front of the people she was with and then take her back to my place. I still should've asserted my dominance over the group.
With impenetrable social circles, bitch shields, and fat friends that cockblock any guy that comes within 10' of them I've pretty much given up on clubs. It's much easier, and better, to meet women during the day. Going to a sewing store and asking a girl how to fix a tear in your clothes is so much easier.
Luck nothing. I got skills. If she's not in to you the next one will be. To quote a great character from a great movie:
The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.
One should escalate whenever possible. If it was a regular pick up I
would've gone for a venue change. I was going more for a speed
seduction so I thought I'd go just short of fingering her in front of
the people she was with and then take her back to my place. I still
should've asserted my dominance over the group.
If you had, she might have ended up in your bed.
With impenetrable social circles, bitch shields, and fat friends that
cockblock any guy that comes within 10' of them I've pretty much given up on clubs. It's much easier, and better, to meet women during the day. Going to a sewing store and asking a girl how to fix a tear in your clothes is so much easier.
Having fulfilled both roles, I empathize with your plight.~
It's much easier, and better, to meet women during the day. Going to a sewing store and asking a girl how to fix a tear in your clothes is so much easier.
No doubt. I am inclined to wonder why you might be tempted to seek out girls in sewing stores. Is it because you are fond of women with a penchant for the traditional? :)