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 There is nothing quite so delicious as leading someone out of their comfort zone. :)

Speaking of hot 35-40 year old men, have you ever seen "The Secretary"? I have a feeling you might like it.

Being comfortable all of the time isn't good.  It leads to apathy.  Or to be more accurate, sitting on the couch, watching tv, drinking beer, and being totally worthless in every way.

no, film or series?

 So... you never drink beer and watch tv? 

I personally draw the line at "TV". :)

haha me too. and beer.

 Damaged, have you seen "The man behind the sun" ?

 Film. It's a bit sentimental for my tastes, but it's quirky and fun- for a movie whose central theme is kink. 

Have you ever watched anything by David Cronenburg?

I do both although I prefer vodka tonics.  It's hard not to do either when all of your "friends" are either people you work with, who only want to go to bars so they can drink while they talk about work, or other people you meet doing other things, who keep cockblocking you when you go out.

 The one about Japanese doctors experimenting on POWs?