I can usually just make it seem like I have some kind of secret and however I'm playing with tends to make it up and I run with it.
I only have one ex, I haven't led the most promiscuis of lives to date. Most times boil down to me intentionally modifying my behavior in some way, she would notice and get curious, I'd be evasive and it would end with her accusing me of cheating on her or not loving her or some such other nonsense. I'd run with it for a bit without ever admitting to anything. Its incredibally immature but has definite entertainment value, at least for me but I'm not the most mature of people sometimes. Theres also the fun part of convincing the other person that its nothing be concerned about after you've caused the meltdown.
I'd be evasive and it would end with her accusing me of cheating on her or not loving her or some such other nonsense. I'd run with it for a bit without ever admitting to anything.
So you deliberately sought to provoke a negative reaction out of her, and fed off the ensuing drama. Did you ever notice a pattern concerning when you prodded her in this manner?
Theres also the fun part of convincing the other person that its nothing be concerned about after you've caused the meltdown.
-Or convincing them that it was really all their fault. I plowed through many weak-willed men in such a manner before my current relationship.
What circumstances led to your hitting her?
Good answer. Making you think otherwise is part of it. It's good to know that you don't know that you can make hidden containers with truecrypt. The only thing I use credit cards for is plane tickets and the hotel as I usually don't want to deal with the aggrivation of getting them in cash. Possibly a rental car and maybe an ATM withdrawl or two.
Final question: We're sitting on the couch watching tv, drinking beer, and being totally useless in every way. Suddenly I look at you and say "Let's go [some activity] for the weekend. Pack a bag." where "some activity" is an extreme sport, or something dangerous like photographing cheetahs in the wild up close, that has a small but non-negligable chance of permanently injuring us or even killing us. What is your response?