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Tony - narcissistic probably lightly on the spectrum. many hints like understanding relationships transactionally only etc etc unable to form real bonds

I'm a giver not a taker, but what's given to me I'll take. Though there comes a time to pull back.

I'll tell you how SC started calling me a narcissist....

Just like a narcissist to have a long story to justify how they're not a narcissist. 

Dude I just look at you and I'm like 'damn, what a narcissist' without needing the history lesson. There's straight up tells in how a person types, and after enough time watching shit like The Circle, Love Island, and anything 90 Day Fiancé coded I can straight up see how you fit the bill. 

And now's the part where you discredit me ad hominem as to why you shouldn't even question why you resemble other narcissists. 

The better move would have been to draw in "The Bandwagon Effect" to have some cheeky association, perhaps.

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Don't have any personal information about you. I have your image, you posted that yourself. Bullshit. At best I asked how tall you were. I challenged you to identify who's information I shared. (You honestly have no answer)

It's not important for me to gain your trust, however, there are many members that have entrusted information with me and I keep it. I used Legga as a prime example. I also safeguard everything Med and I spoke about in private even when she's being cunty toward me. I have multiple pictures of pretty much everyone who exposed themselves. Of all members I have the most of Delora from the image of herself she shared with me long ago, to images of her that surfaced, the many screenshots I've taken with her and EBZ getting along on lifestream. Wedding photos. 

I had friendly conversations with Scarlet and images of her. I know a little bit about Feathers, we've spoken. I'll most likely be meeting Xena soon, and no one will ever know whatever personal information she's shared with me. I realized who Feral is, but I won't say for her sake. Tryptamine, yes. There are things I'm not to repeat. 

Notice how I'm naming names here. Not a single one will come at me for ever, as you say, "sharing information". 

As I've said before, everyone has a degree of narcissism. Something like that. I claim a light spectrum of narcissism and my way of collecting respect and admiration is through my word and keeping trust. 

You actually contradict yourself almost immediately. You say, “Don't have any personal information about you,” then immediately say, “I have your image.”

Denied.

Your claim is that I share your personal information. False.

Yes I have your image, that YOU POSTED HERE. Your image is NOT personal information, it's public information.

 

An identifiable image is personal information in the ordinary meaning of the term. Instead of clarifying the distinction, you respond with “Bullshit,” which is unnecessarily inflammatory.

Your image is not personal information it is public information. Also doxxing is not illegal, and I never doxxed your image, you did that yourself. Your image is in these pages in a post you wrote. 

I have no intention of posting your image. I only do this under consent, ot if you're going crazy posting pictures of yourself.

 

Your claim that you don't share people's information also doesn't hold up when you immediately spend the rest of the post listing people's identities, images, relationships, private conversations, and other personal details. You can't establish that every person whose information you possess or discuss consented to you retaining or talking about it.

Your personal insecurities doesn't dispel the reality of how I handle what personal information people share with me.

What I mentioned about those people in here, is the very evidence that will shut you up. Saying that I share people's personal information is false and very unfair. 

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Y'know what. I'll do something special for you. When it comes to you, and just you since you want to accuse me of fumbling the business the regulars have entrusted with me, even though you have no fucking examples... Since you want to say I do this, I can make your case a self fulfilling prophecy, and you'll remain the ONLY person I ever did this too. Dumb ass. 

Your image still isn't private information. Especially where the source where I acquired it is by your hand in this very forum. You doxxed yourself.

 

And I never consented to you saving, discussing, or repeatedly bringing up my personal details.

I don't need your consent to save what you put on MY SCREEN. You will recognize this as the law, and respect this from now on.

Anyway. The rest of your post is irrelevant nonsense and you seem to be having a meltdown.

 And don't forget this from the other day.....

Gemini said:

The Social and Physical Cost

While these individuals think their intense doubt keeps them safe, psychological research proves it does the opposite. Stanford University's Social Neuroscience Lab notes that cynicism is rising sharply, yet chronic doubters are statistically more prone to loneliness, depression, and fractured relationships. Their suspicion creates a self-fulfilling prophecy: by treating people with constant distrust, they alienate others and push them away, which they then use to "prove" that people cannot be trusted.

 ^ You're just proving this section at the moment.

On a side note, I'm calling out your performance, but go ahead and call this personal information, I insist.  

 
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Spatial Mind said:
Your claim is that I share your personal information. False. Yes I have your image, that YOU POSTED HERE. Your image is NOT personal information, it's public information. Also doxxing is not illegal, and I never doxxed your image, you did that yourself. Your image is in these pages in a post you wrote. I have no intention of posting your image. I only do this under consent, or if you're going crazy posting pictures of yourself. Your personal insecurities doesn't dispel the reality of how I handle what personal information people share with me.

What I mentioned about those people in here, is the very evidence that will shut you up. Saying that I share people's personal information is false and very unfair. Y'know what. I'll do something special for you. When it comes to you, and just you since you want to accuse me of fumbling the business the regulars have entrusted with me, even though you have no fucking examples... Since you want to say I do this, I can make your case a self fulfilling prophecy, and you'll remain the ONLY person I ever did this too. Dumb ass. Your image still isn't private information. Especially where the source where I acquired it is by your hand in this very forum. You doxxed yourself. I don't need your consent to save what you put on MY SCREEN. You will recognize this as the law, and respect this from now on.

And don't forget this from the other day.....

Gemini said:
The Social and Physical Cost

While these individuals think their intense doubt keeps them safe, psychological research proves it does the opposite. Stanford University's Social Neuroscience Lab notes that cynicism is rising sharply, yet chronic doubters are statistically more prone to loneliness, depression, and fractured relationships. Their suspicion creates a self-fulfilling prophecy: by treating people with constant distrust, they alienate others and push them away, which they then use to "prove" that people cannot be trusted.

^ You're just proving this section at the moment.

On a side note, I'm calling out your performance, but go ahead and call this personal information, I insist.

You're still arguing against something I didn't say. I never claimed you secretly obtained my image, doxxed me, or violated some specific law by possessing it. I said that I never consented to you retaining, discussing, or repeatedly invoking my personal information, and that your behavior gives me reasonable grounds to question your trustworthiness.

Calling the image “public information” doesn't change that. Publicly accessible and personal aren't mutually exclusive categories. I posted that image years ago and don't even remember where I originally posted it. You have been bringing it up for years, including using it to insult me and as an ad hominem. “You posted it yourself” explains how you originally obtained it. It doesn't establish perpetual consent to retain it, repeatedly discuss it, or use it against me.

You also still haven't established that everyone whose information you possess or discuss consented to you retaining and talking about it. Listing people's names and saying that you keep their information private is an assertion, not proof. I don't need to produce a catalog of every instance you've ever mishandled information to justify being cautious about what I share with you.

Your response actually gives me more reason to question your trustworthiness. You say, “I can make your case a self fulfilling prophecy” specifically because I criticized how you handle information, and then call me a “Dumb ass.” That's not evidence of someone calmly demonstrating how trustworthy they are. It's retaliatory and openly hostile. You're essentially saying that because I accused you of behavior, you can deliberately engage in it toward me to punish me for making the accusation.

Also, I never said that my “intense doubt” keeps me safe. That's from the Gemini passage you're quoting, not from me. You place that passage immediately after telling me you can “make your case a self fulfilling prophecy,” followed by “You're just proving this section at the moment.” I'm not claiming you explicitly threatened physical harm, but connecting my safety to a retaliatory statement in that context makes the reference unnecessarily ominous.

The argument is circular. You're telling me that my distrust is irrational because distrust can damage relationships, while simultaneously giving me additional reasons to distrust you. If I become more cautious after you tell me you'll retaliate specifically against me, that doesn't prove I have pathological distrust. It means I'm responding to what you actually said.

And calling the rest of my argument “irrelevant nonsense” or saying I'm having a “meltdown” doesn't address any of it. It's another example of turning disagreement into a judgment about my psychological state instead of answering the criticism.

As for narcissism, your response doesn't undermine that interpretation either. You previously dismissed the criticism as groupthink, yet now openly acknowledge having a “light spectrum of narcissism.” You're free to characterize it as mild, but the pattern I've described seems considerably more pronounced: status framing, superiority, admiration-seeking, aggressive reactions to criticism, attribution of hostile motives, and repeatedly positioning yourself as the person who sees through everyone else.

I'm not diagnosing you. I'm explaining why I think narcissistic traits are a plausible interpretation of your behavior. Your reaction to criticism is part of the reason I think that interpretation has substance.

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Remember this....

- Doxxing isn't illegal

- I never shared anyone's personal information.

You cannot say what information I shared, you just claim that I did this to people. 

I'll make you into a fortune teller if you really wish. Just let me know when to, as you say, post your personal information. 

You neither qualify to be honored as I do the worst of the regulars. 

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Remember this.

- Doxxing isn't illegal

- I never shared anyone's personal information.

You cannot say what information I shared, you just claim that I did this to people. I'll make you into a fortune teller if you really wish. Just let me know when to, as you say, post your personal information. You neither qualify to be honored as I do the worst of the regulars. 

Your latest response makes the problem even clearer. You now say, “I'll make you into a fortune teller” and tell me to let you know when you want to “post your personal information.” In context, that's an explicit statement that you are willing to post my personal information specifically because I accused you of doing so. Calling it a joke or a self-fulfilling prophecy doesn't change what you're actually saying.

And “doxxing isn't illegal” is irrelevant to the point I made. Legality and trustworthiness are different questions. I never argued that possessing the image necessarily constituted a crime. I argued that I did not consent to you retaining and repeatedly using it against me, and that your behavior gives me reasonable grounds to question your trustworthiness.

Likewise, “you cannot say what information I shared” doesn't prove that you never shared anything. At most, it means you are demanding a specific example. That's different from establishing your broader claim that you never share personal information. Your own posts demonstrate that you possess and discuss extensive information about other people.

And saying that I don't qualify to be “honored” like the worst of the regulars is another status judgment. You keep turning ordinary disagreements into questions of who deserves your respect, who is beneath you, who is trustworthy, who is weak, and who occupies the moral high ground. That's part of the pattern I'm criticizing, not a rebuttal to it.

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Doxxing isn't illegal. Never was. Freedom of speech.

Neither is filming in public.

Your image is not personal information.

I don't read long posts from you anymore.

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 When I get around to it I'll post an image of myself too.

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Doxxing isn't illegal. Never was. Freedom of speech. Neither is filming in public. Your image is not personal information. I don't read long posts from you anymore. When I get around to it I'll post an image of myself too.

You're changing the argument again. I never claimed that possessing my image is automatically illegal or that you secretly obtained it. Your legal argument about freedom of speech is beside the point. I'm talking about consent, boundaries, and whether your behavior gives me reason to trust you with personal information.

You also went from “I don't have any personal information about you” to “your image is not personal information.” That's not the same claim. You plainly have the image. You're now just redefining what counts as personal information so that your original statement can technically survive.

And the relevant part of your previous response remains: “I'll make you into a fortune teller” by posting my personal information specifically because I accused you of doing so. That is the retaliatory statement I'm addressing. Saying you don't read my long posts doesn't refute any of it.

You can call the image public, legal, or whatever else you want. None of that establishes that I consented to you retaining it for years and repeatedly using it as an ad hominem against me. It also doesn't establish that I have no legitimate reason to consider you untrustworthy with personal information.

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My claims haven't changed.

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My claims haven't changed.

Your claims may not have changed in your own mind, but your framing of them has repeatedly changed to avoid addressing the substance. Persisting in a position doesn't make it correct, especially when the reasoning around it keeps shifting.

And the volatility is part of what I'm observing. I've generally responded to you in a fairly analytical and equitable way, yet you repeatedly respond with insults, accusations of “meltdowns,” and increasingly hostile framing. That makes the “meltdown” accusation look more like projection than an objective description of my behavior.

I can't know what is happening psychologically, but perceived threats to status or self-image can produce defensive reactions. You've also mentioned being beaten as a child, so past experiences with aggression could potentially be relevant.

Likewise, social reinforcement can make people persist in behaviors that produce attention, status, validation, or other rewarding reactions. I'm not saying dopamine makes you believe false things. I'm saying that repeatedly defending a position, shifting its framing when challenged, attacking the person challenging it, and then treating their reaction as proof of their instability can become self-reinforcing.

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