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Turncoat said: 

Med said: 

I’m like Orphan Annie. If you knew it really sucks.

Who is Daddy Warbucks in this case? 

 Nobody yet I forgot that part 

Med said: 

My mom’s sister phones her of late. “Is she (me) doing anything to you. Don’t do ANYTHING” (meant with regard to money or Estate planning or stuff like that.) in the past she has accused me of elder abuse.

I find it extremely rude. I know I’m in the right but what can I say?

Additionally my relatives would not see my mother and me over the past few three years for holidays so I cut them out. Now they want to see me now that it’s not thanksgiving/Xmas/new year’s 

and so because I don’t want to I’m being called incredibly selfish. I’m told my aunt above has bought me manicures and haircuts “can’t I PAY her a visit” My mom is not the one saying this FYI. Couched in it is excuse that they do holidays as a family unit not as a group.

So I told her my mother would see her if she wanted to and im not stopping her.

I have this sinister idea as a result: I think the lifetime amount she has spent on me is certainly no more than $500. So I would cut her a check for $500 and never be indebted to her again. *But this could back fire I could see after my mom passes they say here’s some money we wash our hands of you 

 

What should I do?

 I need family but mine sucks rn. Hopefully I marry into a great family.

 is any of this not about money?

natasha87 said: 

Med said: 

My mom’s sister phones her of late. “Is she (me) doing anything to you. Don’t do ANYTHING” (meant with regard to money or Estate planning or stuff like that.) in the past she has accused me of elder abuse.

I find it extremely rude. I know I’m in the right but what can I say?

Additionally my relatives would not see my mother and me over the past few three years for holidays so I cut them out. Now they want to see me now that it’s not thanksgiving/Xmas/new year’s 

and so because I don’t want to I’m being called incredibly selfish. I’m told my aunt above has bought me manicures and haircuts “can’t I PAY her a visit” My mom is not the one saying this FYI. Couched in it is excuse that they do holidays as a family unit not as a group.

So I told her my mother would see her if she wanted to and im not stopping her.

I have this sinister idea as a result: I think the lifetime amount she has spent on me is certainly no more than $500. So I would cut her a check for $500 and never be indebted to her again. *But this could back fire I could see after my mom passes they say here’s some money we wash our hands of you 

 

What should I do?

 I need family but mine sucks rn. Hopefully I marry into a great family.

 is any of this not about money?

 That’s the thing: I think they make it about money when it shouldn’t be, even can you pay her a visit. Does horrible things to families.

Also this woman insinuates if she hasn’t heard from my mother I’m doing something to her 

Med said: 

natasha87 said: 

Med said: 

My mom’s sister phones her of late. “Is she (me) doing anything to you. Don’t do ANYTHING” (meant with regard to money or Estate planning or stuff like that.) in the past she has accused me of elder abuse.

I find it extremely rude. I know I’m in the right but what can I say?

Additionally my relatives would not see my mother and me over the past few three years for holidays so I cut them out. Now they want to see me now that it’s not thanksgiving/Xmas/new year’s 

and so because I don’t want to I’m being called incredibly selfish. I’m told my aunt above has bought me manicures and haircuts “can’t I PAY her a visit” My mom is not the one saying this FYI. Couched in it is excuse that they do holidays as a family unit not as a group.

So I told her my mother would see her if she wanted to and im not stopping her.

I have this sinister idea as a result: I think the lifetime amount she has spent on me is certainly no more than $500. So I would cut her a check for $500 and never be indebted to her again. *But this could back fire I could see after my mom passes they say here’s some money we wash our hands of you 

 

What should I do?

 I need family but mine sucks rn. Hopefully I marry into a great family.

 is any of this not about money?

 That’s the thing: I think they make it about money when it shouldn’t be, even can you pay her a visit. Does horrible things to families.

Also this woman insinuates if she hasn’t heard from my mother I’m doing something to her 

 you're also making it about money my sweet

Chapo said: 

🤣😂

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I’ve been thinking a lot about this kind of stuff again. I have made myself a nobody by dropping out of everything. My dad’s brother’s wife is still alive but won’t speak to me. My dad’s brother was Harvard and Harvard Law. She is a lawyer and they had no children. 
I imagine she thinks I want something from her. Imagine if I did have something from them, maybe I wouldn’t need worry as much.

It’s almost now that I need a man to survive. I don’t want just any man for that matter. I want a handsome man and to be swept off my feet, I guess. I had such a man but when I was being pursued I pushed him away. No one can get close to me. I don’t want an emotional man either. I made that man emotionally unreachable for me, which is safe I guess, but evidently unsatisfying

The mere thought of wanting a man to survive makes me sick. I can get sex no problem and I still want the best sex I can get but any sex won’t do. 

I lost my train of thought here. Could be I leave myself open to attack which is not good.

I am afraid of commitment. To one man. But I will.

Also I have fallen so far. My dad was a genius and erudite, what would my mother have been without him. I love my mother I guess after all because she is mine. And now I’m writing too self-consciously without regard to how I really feel. But she is contented to her routine, (at least she has routine) to play the same computer games? all day long. It’s not about my mother but she holds me back. Okay writing sounds too stilted here I’m afraid of revealing my thoughts. Enough for now.

I am afraid of the future

Med said: 

I am afraid of commitment. To one man. But I will.

Also I have fallen so far. My dad was a genius and erudite, what would my mother have been without him. I love my mother I guess after all because she is mine. And now I’m writing too self-consciously without regard to how I really feel. But she is contented to her routine, (at least she has routine) to play the same computer games? all day long. It’s not about my mother but she holds me back. Okay writing sounds too stilted here I’m afraid of revealing my thoughts. Enough for now.

 I mean you pretty much do nothing all day, what are you without your parents' support? Nothing.

Chapo with his 5 guys job probably couldnt do much either, also he hates you

What were you thinking when you gave him thousands? This is all your fault. You cane from a privileged upbringing and ruined it